Social Question

jca2's avatar

Have you ever crashed a party, picnic, conference or other event(s)?

Asked by jca2 (16901points) 4 hours ago

I’m not referring to only showing up at a party uninvited, but I mean showing up to a party where nobody knows who you are, and you blend in with the crowd so as to eat and/or drink for free, dance, enjoy the festivities, without being detected as not belonging.

I’m thinking of the movie “Wedding Crashers” where they show up at weddings and eat, drink and flirt with other guests.

I’m thinking of weddings, company picnics, corporate meetings, company holiday parties, conferences, stuff where you weren’t invited, you didn’t belong but you crashed, blended in with the crowd and hung out.

Observing members: 0 Composing members: 0

2 Answers

JLeslie's avatar

Never crashed, but I have shown up to listen to a band when I was researching who to hire for my own wedding. We dressed up and went to a reception for about fifteen minutes. The band leader had told us where they would be playing. I think we only stood out because my husband had on a black suit not a tux, not that you can’t get away with that anyway, or maybe just because we were a new set of faces suddenly in the crowd, if someone was good at taking in faces. One woman started talking to us and figured out we were there to see the band. Not that she cared, she was nice and smiled about it, she probably had done the same at some point since guessed it. We didn’t eat or drink anything.

zenvelo's avatar

My friend’s dad took us out to dinner in San Francisco and we all wore coat and tie. We went for a nightcap at the then revolving bar at the top of the. Hyatt Regency.

As we were leaving, we took an elevator down, and it stopped ouside one of the ballrooms where a wedding reception was going on. The friend’s dad said, let’s check it out”, and we went in and fit right in with the other guests, went to the bar and got some drinks.

They had a good band so a couple of us asked some girls to dance. Had a lot of fun, but we split before we got caught.

Another time my fraternity was having a costume party, and one of the apartments next door was also having a party. I could hear their stereo when our band took a break, so I went next door to check it out. Turns out it was a party of international students. Met a girl from Sweden there, and took her back to the fraternity party for a little while. I have always wondered what happened to Anna Blum from Uppsala.

Answer this question

Login

or

Join

to answer.
Your answer will be saved while you login or join.

Have a question? Ask Fluther!

What do you know more about?
or
Knowledge Networking @ Fluther