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honeybun35's avatar

Why would a man want a sex pic or video if they already had you?

Asked by honeybun35 (1047points) 1 day ago

The guy I had sex with few times and I had hot sexting conversation. He wanted to see photos. Once I sent one I couldn’t stop. This morning I sent one and he said good morning. He is opening the messages.

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janbb's avatar

He wants something to jerk off to.

honeybun35's avatar

Wow are you serious?

janbb's avatar

Why else would he want them?

honeybun35's avatar

So a man rather that then the real thing?

janbb's avatar

Why don’t you ask him?

honeybun35's avatar

Embarrassed and afraid. Just thought he wanted to see if he wanted it again.

Dutchess_III's avatar

He’s about the sex, not the flesh and blood relationship. Too much work.

SergeantQueen's avatar

Men don’t discriminate as long as it gets them off lol

MrGrimm888's avatar

Maybe he really likes you?
A LOT of people have photos, of people they like, even if they live with the person.

Dutchess_III's avatar

No @MrGrimm888. Not if all he wants are porn of her.

MrGrimm888's avatar

^I apparently don’t understand the question, as worded.

I’ll happily bail.
I hope things work out well.

Peace and love.

Blackwater_Park's avatar

It’s a red flag. It’s a person who likes the image of you but not “you.” Understand?

honeybun35's avatar

It’s not an image of me it’s a sex pic .

Dutchess_III's avatar

@honeybun35 is he asking for sex pics of you? Or is he asking you to send random porn pictures of other women on the internet? (which is what black water was asking.)

Forever_Free's avatar

That’s a common low-minded male request. He has one thing in mind and he will ask that of any woman he can dialogue with. I am sad for his choices in life.

honeybun35's avatar

Of me I ddnt mention other woman. Why would I send him other females?

Blackwater_Park's avatar

@honeybun35 because you said it was not an image of you. I was speaking metaphorically when I said “image of you”

Let me rephrase. This person likes the idea of you, as an object of lust. Possibly not as a person for a relationship. This is why it’s a red/yellow flag. You should be careful if a relationship is what you want. If you just want sex, then don’t worry about it.

jca2's avatar

Men can be a confusing species. The best way to know for sure is to ask him.

Kropotkin's avatar

He’s selling them on Only Fans.

Dutchess_III's avatar

@jca2…but he won’t give her an honest answer, of course.

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