I also had birds, and still do. I have two birds at this time, and both of them look like this one. They are Nanday Conures, and they have a lifespan of around 45 – 60 years, if given excellent care, which I definitely try to give them, every single day.
The first one was purchased for $250, approximately, but the second one (both are males) was given to me by the pet store, because he had been taken away from his previous owners, because he had been severely abused. So, when he first came into my life (and heart) he was terrified of human beings and had to be handled with thick gloves, to protect myself against his vicious bites.
I decided that I was going to prove to him that I was trustworthy and would never let anyone harm him, ever again. I started by removing the gloves and letting him bite me as much as he wanted, and believe me, those bites really hurt, but instead of reacting with anger, I’d cry and tell him how much I loved him, and that no one would ever hurt him again, for as long as he lived.
Eventually, after several months (and several blood-drawing bites), he stopped biting. Shortly thereafter, he’d hesitatingly hop onto my offered finger, and because Conures eat pretty-much whatever humans eat (except chocolate), he had a regular plate set for him at my dinner table, and would eat whatever I was having, including steak, pork, and even pizza.
Soon, he began to do something that he had never done, when I first got him: He began to chirp happily when he saw me enter his room. Yes, he had his own bedroom, so he could have his alone time, on occasion. And finally, I was able to hold him in my hands and pet his back, and even kiss him on the top of his head, without him flinching and biting.
Today (and I apologize for bragging), he’s a very happy and well-adjusted little bird, and he’s not afraid of me at all. He trusts me, but I’m probably the only one he does trust.
You may not believe this, but we even take showers together. He loves them, and I think he loves me, as well. The new name I gave him when I got him, is “Baby.”
The one I purchased is named, “Jade,” and here is one story about him that I tell, to illustrate how birds can misinterpret the actions of their human owners, on occasion.
I frequently kiss my birds on the top of their little heads, and tell them how much I love them. Well, one day, “Jade” bit me on my lip, very hard, and drew blood. I reacted with yelling and anger and scolding, because my beloved bird had done such a horrible thing to someone who loved him, as much as I did.
Angry as all get-out, I telephoned my bird vet and said, “Paul, why did he do that? What was he thinking? That really hurt! And I love him so much, too!”
My bird vet chuckled a little then stunned me beyond all imagining, with this explanation:
“Jack, your bird loves you too, also very much. He didn’t mean to bite you at all, and you need to immediately forgive him. You see, he has A BEAK, and NO LIPS. So, what he was doing was, he was KISSING YOU BACK, the only way a creature with A BEAK, knows how to do.”
I was so ashamed of my earlier anger…