shockvalue – I get your points completely. And I’m torn about voting, because on one hand, my ideal voting system would be one in which you have to be a knowledgable voter…i.e. you’d have to have the mental capacity to make a decision and at least a rudimentary understanding of the issues and the candidates positions. And in my ideal world, it wouldn’t be a 2 party system…we’d have a test designed by a non partisan panel of extremely knowledgable people who have decided what is in the best interest of the nation for every voter to understand, and those people who could demonstrate the ability to think and a grasp of the important issues would be allowed to vote however they wanted…the test would not steer people in any way.
On the other hand, I see in your ideal world, that most likely because so many people have sacrificed so much to give us the right to vote, that everyone should take that responsibility seriously, and we should force people to do so if they won’t do so themselves. After all, in a representative Democracy where majority rules, shouldn’t everyone’s voice be heard, even if that voice is uninformed?
But our founding fathers did not believe in truly representative Democracy…that indeed is why we have an electoral college and not a popular vote system. What we have fought for and won is our RIGHT to express ourselves in any way, including by voicing our opinion at the polls. But as the Canadian Prog Rock band Rush pointed out many years ago, “if you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice.”
That’s what it boils down to, people have fought and died for our right to voice our opinion at the polls, AS well as by staying away from them altogether. It seems you are torn between the two ideals…should we force an uninformed voter to vote even though they’ll vote wrong, or should we let her make her own choice, thus actually increasing the overall quality of the vote.
I’d say how she would vote is irrelevant. What is relevant is that it is one’s right to vote as they choose…that is the system we have, that is the system for which blood has been spilled, and like it or not, our moral obligation is to allow people to make their own choices.
However, it is your duty as her friend to inform her of your values. I’d say, if she will listen, you should tell her why you think it is the duty of everyone to vote. And you should also tell her why you think everyone should vote for Obama. Let your passion shine through, speak your conscience. Your best chance of moving her is if you can give her a reason to see that voting for Obama would be in her, and everyone’s best interest. And if that backfires and she votes, and casts her ballot for McCain, you can sleep with a clear conscience.