Well your logic is faulty.
As a life-long pessimist, I’ll only talk about that side.
“Pessimistic people, I believe, think they are being realists. They need to see the world as it is.”
This is true (at least with respect to me.)
“It makes them uncomfortable to lie to themselves or have others lie to them”
This is absurd because it implies that optimists, therefore are comfortable lying to themselves and having others lie to them. (And what are the people who lie to others: optimists or pessimists?)
“It may be hard for them to follow social niceties, because they see that as a form of lying.”
Way past absurd.
Pessimists are not the only rude folks you’ll encounter
Who the h*** could imagine that anyone is rude because they think to do otherwise is lying.
Rude people are not confined to any one outlook.
“They believe they can’t solve either the world’s problems or personal problems unless they are brutally honest about what is going on”
No one can solve any problems unless they know what the problem is (honesty required here)
What is brutal honesty? Facts are just that. They have no personality or character. We may not like a particular set of facts, but that doesn’t make them brutal.”
Brutal is a word of emotion. Problems tend to be solved without emotion (not to be confused with empathy)
“Often times, they are very critical of themselves. Maybe too much”
No correlation between outlook on the world in general and self evaluation.
If anyone avoids critically appraising their own performance, then how do they know their work is good enough? If you don’t reach a point where you know your work is good, you’ll always need someone to grade you. How will you ever improve?
Though self criticism is unrelated, some people (like me) do carry it a bit too far for some people. The only real danger here is that this attitude can easily be instilled in children (ie too much self criticism)
Too much (generally not good); None (always bad)
They may have difficulty with compliments”
I do have this issue, but pessimism isn’t part of it.
I depend on my mind for my vocation.
In that mind of mine, I do believe that every one has the same capacity/potential, therefore I am not special.
I tend to, then, ignore compliments related to my work because anyone can do it.
“because they think that complimenters are optimists”
I’m a pessimist, I give compliments therefore I must be a liar; schizophrenic…?
“and optimists lie.”
Then who in there right mind would want to believe or be an optimist?
While your subject is interesting, your logic is faulty. If it is truly of interest, I’m sure you could easily do some research (internet, libraries) that would provide some interesting information on the traits common to each group and perhaps even some credible theories about how we each end up one way or the other.
I find that my optimistic friends tend to say things like: “Everything works out for the best”
This of course is untrue (but since optimists lie, do they mean it?)
Everything will work itself out, one way or another.
If whatever is needing to work itself out has any potential of negatively affecting me or my loved ones, I’m not really going to leave it up to hope or chance if I can actively do something to affect the outcome.
Pessism/Optimism is just a way of sorting out the world and dealing with it to the best of our abilities.
Both see the glass correctly: It is half empty and it is half full. At the same time.