What's your feeling about sexual experience vs inexperience?

I admit it. There are times I’ve asked how many did you have. I was wondering if I missed out on something I really would have liked to have. For me, more (in terms of number of partners) was better. I was convinced that everyone was having more fun that me.

Well, maybe I exagerated. I never did ask. Didn’t have the balls, I guess. But what if I had, and what if I found my experience was actually decent. Would I have felt like I didn’t miss out, after all?

What’s your take on the most valuable amount of experience? Do you think a little is better? Why? Do you think a lot is better? Why?

And why do we play games about comparing ourselves to others in this area? Sort of a shame/brag relationship, I guess? Deconstruct it for me please, with ample examples from your own life, if you dare!