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What do I do when I like this girl whos going out with someone else?

Asked by avengedsevenfoldfan (1points) October 13th, 2008

I like this girl but shes goin out with someone else, even though she told me she kinda likes me. And now her boyfriend ,(my friend) knows, and is asking me questions!!!1 HELP ME!!!!

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deaddolly's avatar

Respect your friendship and leave her alone until she ends it with your friend. How would you feel if he did something like that to you? And if she would cheat with you; she’s not much of a prize, is she?

RandomMrdan's avatar

I was in a similar scenario. I waited for the relationship to end, and let a lot of time pass, asked my friend if he would mind if I would ask her out and hang out with her more.

He said he was cool with it…complications arose, and her and I broke it off after a couple months.

I would say steer clear, but if you intend to date her…just wait.

JackAdams's avatar

Assassination is always an option

jvgr's avatar

Hold on…
You always have choices.
How long have you known this guy you say is a friend?
Is he a good friend?
Is the friendhship worth dumping for getting involved with his girlfriend in a relationship that may be very brief after you get to know one another.

simone54's avatar

You get over it.

stink111's avatar

Wait i know it sucks but they probably will break up also you might have a differnt crush a day later.

gailcalled's avatar

@all; Am I just naturally suspicious or did that question seem very, very familiar, down to the “whos,” “goin,” “kinda,” and “HELP ME!!!”

Avenged joined today and has a very sophisticated and perfectly spelled user-name. Or am I paranoid?

chelseababyy's avatar

Do nothing. If you tell her, that could cause lots and lots of problems. There are plenty fish in the sea, I know that sounds lame, but as lame as it sounds, it’s completely true.

Your life is NOT over.

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