How do i deal with my ex fiance cheating on me for a year and a half?

My advice to you is to get acquainted with the “details” section when you ask a question.

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Do you have time to edit this?

thanks i didnt have time cause im too busy crying my eyes out thank you…

The word “ex” tells me that you’re already finding pretty good ways of dealing with it. It’s hard, but you sound strong, and it’s better to find out now than after you’re married (and possibly with kids). You also sound young, and so I will assure you that you have a long time left to find someone good. Now that you know who is NOT right for you, it makes it easier to find someone who is.

Unless I am missing something, he is your ex—so it’s over. It’s been dealt with. Looks like you already did the right thing, and now you can move on.

wow! I know what you’re feeling don’t give him another chance you’re better than him. How could he have cheated on you for a year and a half and say they didn’t have sex? Bull shit you might think he’s the one and I understand it’s hard to get rid of feelings but “the one” wouldn’t do something of this sort and I’m sure you will find someone better. Just keep your head up and think positive : )

He’s your ‘Ex’, be glad. And you didn’t give him your life, that’s yours…all yours. Live and learn and hold your head high. Don’t put on the detective hat and search for details, they won’t change a thing.

yeah ex that i still live with im stranded like 4 states away from my family out here it sucks i really have so many feelings for him and he just shocked me but i guess those are the worst kinds

Rant and rave to your friends about him if you must, but leave him far, far behind. Once a liar, always a liar.

oh my stop. Your story sounds so familiar that it makes me want to cry. Look things will definitely get better trust me just don’t loose your pride. Now I wish I wouldn’t have clicked on this : ( shit!

lol really adri027 lol i talked to his aunt cause i live with his family and she caught me crying she said if i loved him still and hes willing to try love is worth fighting for cause she knows how he is he is sort of a wimp lol but lately it has been tearing me apart i mean everytime i look at him i smile then if i even try to make it work i just feel so hurt once again and im afraid once a liar always a liar might just be true:(

@krazy, how old are you, and why are you living with his family? Can you go home? Are you working?

Well I mean if you’re like me and believe people do change then go for it. I will tell you that it’s not going to be easy at all! It’s always going to be in the back of your head and there will be times when you can’t even stand looking at him or hearing his voice just the very thought of him will make you go into a rage! Ugh…I’m hating right now if he was next to me I’d kick him in the balls really hard.

Geeeeeeeeeettttttt Ooooouuuuuuttttt! Pack your things, take your self esteem and be on your way. Don’t expect to get objective advice from his family.

I realize this might seem a little easier said than done, but do your best to gather all your strength and MOVE ON! SERIOUSLY. Move out and do not look back. This person does not deserve or respect you, Period. He will never change. There are literally thousands of great men out there who will treat you with respect and really love ONLY YOU for who you are. LOVE AWAITS YOU ELSEWHERE! If you truly believe you deserve to be treated well, stay strong and believe much better things await you in your future. Seek support in your friends and family.

Very good. Now please disregard first comment.

@osakarob- that is just simply rude and mean.

You mentioned weight a couple of times. Please don’t worry yourself about that. Obviously, I don’t know the specific situation, but I seriously, seriously doubt that you are at fault in any way, shape, or form. He didn’t mess around because he thinks your fat. He messed around because he’s a despicable bastard.

Don’t worry about what you could have done different, or how you could have been different. You are not the cause of this.

Call your family, and ask them to help you get home. You need to get out of that house ASAP.

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I am filled with shame.

100 lashes with a wet noodle, aidje!

Agree 100% with augustian. You should focus on yourself now, leave him and his family. A year and a half cheating is too much. Well, ANY cheating is too much. You deserve much better.