Thanksgiving dinner: relaxing or stressful?

here it comes again: that national holiday of family and good times. or is it really? is the event comforting for you or is it just a stress day—not because of all the preparing of food, but because uncle bubba will be there and years ago he made a pass at a “blood” family member and we still haven’t forgotten, PLUS every time we say how good the dressing is, it breaks out in a fight of the aunts and somebody always brings up little kyle’s imaginary friend, but now little kyle is like 33 and married.

or is your holiday just good times and everybody chips in to wash the dishes?