Can a blowjob be a bonding experience?

one question, does blowjob satisfies woman?? If i am a woman i prefer eating an icecream

beyond bonding. major soul tie.

Wow, You certainly seem to have a theme going with your questions.

Well you certainly will be closer.

How old are you?

She’s 17

@pup: Considering the poster’s questions, I think they’re a very young teenager. If you look at their other questions I’m pretty sure you’ll agree.

I’ve sworn off answering their questions when they veer towards an actual sex act personally. I have no problem answering some questions, correcting misinformation and informing seems fine. But, no thanks to this one.

@scam: So she says.

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I agree, 17 is way to young. Personally I would wait till I’m married to have sex of any kind. Oral or regular. That’s what I’m going to do (and believe is morally right), but I have no control over you or anyone, just myself. So I can’t make you not want to. Actually I don’t know if you want to or if you are just curious, but if you want to, then that’s my two-cents (...or…sense(whatever it is)).

Yes. It can be.

I believe it is, but you have to consider that some men, no matter how much you love them, they just won’t, or can’t feel that way about you. I have known so many people that do sexual favors for their significant others, and in turn receive nothing in return.

To answer you question literally, yes, it can be… whether it will be is a different matter all together.

Hm. I think I’ve misled people. Oops. Yes, I’m 17. No, I haven’t done this yet. Nor will I, probably. And I ask questions about sexual activity because I won’t be having it until much later in life, but it’s very very interesting and I’m curious.

Hey! That is great! At least you have maturity to ask questions and learn before you do. Just remember to always consider every possible consequence to your actions, and that goes for any action, not just sexual.

I didn’t and now look at me, not so good.

Eh, no, I wouldn’t say it’s a good bonding activity. Sex brings you closer, yes, but I think bjs are a little different than that. Seems like blowjobs are just a pretty sexual deal, no real love or anything involved there. That’s just my opinion though.. I’ve never given any intimate and loving blowjobs. Just doesn’t seem that way.

@thatswhatshesaid maybe you have things a little backwards. Try being ‘bonded’ with the guy before you think about sucking on him. As generalspecific says above, it’s a sexual act, and doesn’t have much to do with love.

@gs: any sexual activity (imnho) should be an intimate, loving experience between people who care for each other, not “just sex.”

@pup, that’s understandable, obviously that’s how it should be, but I just can’t really see a blowjob being loving or caring. That’s just me though.

@generalspecific not just you .. me too!!

@ GS & scamp: maybe you just haven’t blown the right guy.

What would bring you closer together as a couple would be posting pictures of it on the net.

Ha! That would bring us ALL closer together.~

@PupnTaco Every guy was “the right guy” or they would not have recieved what I had to offer. I still haven’t changed my point of view on this. It is possible to have “just sex” with someone you love and not have the act itself be anything more than a sexual act. There’s romantic lovemaking and plain old fucking just for shits and giggles, and you can do both with someone you love depending on your mood/libido at the time.

jtvoar was on the right track, in my opinion, thatswhatshesaid.

If you’re actually in a relationship with someone and there is no doubt in your mind or his that you’re in love, it can be special and bring you closer to him. I do not, however, suggest doing this outside of a relationship or even in a relationship, until you know for sure that you love someone and he loves you just as much.

For some men, oral is a pure power-trip and they enjoy it for all the wrong reasons. If you were to meet a male like this (and hopefully it will never happen to you), in no way will it bring the two of you closer, because it’s not possible for that kind of guy.

But if you’re with someone you know very well and someone you trust very well, it can be special, regardless of what some other people have said. It can show how much you appreciate your partner and that you’re willing to give without receiving once in a while. You should only be willing to feel that way (and probably only will feel that way) in a truly loving relationship, though. If you’re with the wrong kind of guy you probably won’t even have the desire to do it for him – which is a good thing.

You’re 17, almost an adult. There’s no reason to treat this question with kid gloves, so I’ve answered the best I know how. It’s better for you to ask a question like this and get answers from people’s hearts that will hopefully guide you into adulthood with some genunine advice. Maybe, somehow, some of these answers will help you do the right thing later on.

My last bit if advice for you, when you turn 18: Listen to your heart and go with your gut. If something doesn’t feel 100% right to you, don’t do it. And that goes for everything.

It could be, but only if a girl do it like this:

1. First you need to get him turned on – be more aggressive, grab his stuff, slowly massage his balls through his pants, it’s important that you act as seductive as possible – the more you’re turned on – the more he’ll be turned on. Pull his pants down slowly and act as naughty as possible – this is a great turn on.

2. Grab his hand and lick on his fingers slowly before you give him head – just put his middle finger slowly into your mouth and suck on it, up and down, slide it slowly and moan – you have to moan a lot so he feels like a king.

3. As you’re licking one finger, slowly start stroking his shaft (penis) with your other hand, you have to be on your knees and he should be standing, look him in the eyes – this way you can see his reactions. You need to love giving him head if you want him to really enjoy it.

4. Most girls make the mistake of being too soft – don’t do that, grab his penis tightly and stroke it hard, as you’re twisting his shaft with one hand slowly start sucking on the head (the tip) of his penis, curl your tongue around it, twist it in circles, then point it upwards and slowly lick it while you’re watching him.

5. Say something like “mmmmm I love it” then smile, smiling is very important – it conveys that you love it. Keep on stroking and sucking harder.

6. Start talking dirty to him, put your hands around his balls and tickle them gently – make sure you are gentle ‘cause his balls are very sensitive, as you’re tickling, keep on stroking and sucking.

7. Once you see that he’s getting closer start stroking harder – and don’t even think about slowing down. Scream at him, tell him you want it – tell him where you want it (swallowing will make him go crazy just as you want it) – then as he starts to come, you have 2 options – you can hold his penis or he can hold it – I suggest you let him hold it and squeeze it out.

8. Then hold his penis and stroke it slowly, just as if you were trying to squeeze every last drop out of him into your mouth, give it a few more finishing licks.

9. Then smile at him, open your mouth and show him what you’ve got in your mouth, smile, then swallow all of it – then look up at him again and open your mouth to show him it’s gone. If you REALLY want to learn how to give a blow job then you have to read Jack’s Blowjob Lessons——> http://www.jacksblowjoblessons.com

10. Smile again, believe me he’ll love you for it.

Good luck

I suppose it can be, although it also can just be a blowjob.

And I ask questions about sexual activity because I won’t be having it until much later in life, but it’s very very interesting and I’m curious.
Oh, hell, you are in the wrong place then, only shady voyeurs ask sexual questions around here, or is said to be. ~~

@PupnTaco [… any sexual activity (imnho) should be an intimate, loving experience between people who care for each other, not “just sex.”
Boy are you in for a rude awakening…. ~~

These days, it has no more bonding power on either side, than sharing the same fries at the fast food place. Maybe if she swallowed without spitting it out it might gain some points, other than that, nah……