I don’t understand what a drinking age does. Everyone seems to be saying that any kid who wants to, gets around it, and that there is barely any enforcement of the regulations, and even so, the underaged drinkers get no serious punishment.
I think this drinking age is a legacy of a kind of puritanism in the United States, but it has nothing to do with how people actually behave.
Children benefit by exposure to a topic, whether sex, or drugs, or alcohol, or voting. We, as parents, will do a better job if we expose our kids to these things (and others) and show them how to handle them responsibly.
I think most parents in this country are horribly remiss when it comes to parenting. They rely on schools to do things, but pass laws that prohibit the schools from doing things, because that is the parents’ responsibility. This way, they get to play the blame game. Parents point the finger at schools for failing to teach, and schools point the finger at parents for failing to teach. Lovely.
It is a dog eat dog world, no matter how much we try to make it otherwise. To pass laws that are meaningless and can not be enforced teaches children to disrespect the law. Drinking age laws are useless, and should not even be laws, at all.
We should approach issues surrounding use of drugs (alcohol is a drug, as I learned in high school, btw) as we do for adults: with education about the consequences of behavior, and programs to help folks stop abusing the drugs. Laws don’t prevent drug abuse; education does. When education fails, we’ve got Bill W.
Responsibility is the key concept, and the word of the hour!