I think the issue of reality is much more problematic for someone who sees non-real things that look real. Normally, we trust our senses to give us an accurate reflection of the data that surrounds us. For all working purposes, that is reality.
We talk about what we think reality is with other people, and if we get concurrence, we feel a sense of confirmation that our senses are reporting reliably to us. This sense of confirmation is, of necessity, based on shaky ground, due to some objections mentioned above. Still, it’s the best we’re going to get.
Here’s a question: what do you use reality for? Why do you need reality?
Now in some people’s reality, they will say, “that’s not a question; that’s two questions!” Be that as it may. Most people will take my point, despite their pickiness about terminology. Or so I believe.
My answer to that question is people use reality to develop a consensus on which they can build a communications infrastructure. In order to communicate, we have to agree on how we are going to use symbols. We’ll call this object—and others that are similar to it in these dimentions—a table. We use this configuration of lines to indicate we are discussing a table, and we use that set of sounds to indicate the same thing. We also use these hand postures.
Reality is a communications process. It is dependent on language, written, signed, and aural. There is no particular reason to use one symbol over another to indicate concept. So we have multiple languages, multiple alphabets, and probably multiple sign languages (certainly multiple dance styles).
Does the form of the symbol a group of people uses for a component of their reality-concept change the reality of those people in a strong enough way that other people not familiar with that symbolic system would not recognize the component as real? We all know the famous example that the Eskimos have umpteen words for snow. English speakers may have three or four, but we don’t really recognize all those other forms. They don’t exist because we don’t have words for them!
So now, when I answer the question, I have to say that one way I know something is real is because I have a word for it. It is through exchanging words that I attain a mechanism to corroborate my sense of “reality.”
So if I say I see something, and someone else says they see it, too, we generate more confidence that we are seeing the same thing. Never mind that our words may be inadequate for the thing, or that we may not have words for an important aspect of that reality-mote.
So what is unreal? If I cannot verify my senses with other people’s, then my senses could be deemed as “faulty.” If I do not have a symbol to name something, it is also unreal. That latter unreality is the sort that could be converted to reality, if we develop a consensus symbol for what it is, and learn to see it.
Bottom line: no one knows if anything is real unless it is corroborated by other people using an imperfect symbol system that has been devised to attempt to identify reality.