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Does anyone here have some advice about ex boyfriends for me?

Asked by ilovemetrostation (19points) January 7th, 2009

ok well i do. there is this one guy, joey, and i have known him since the 4th grade. i see him all the time now at our new school, we had been going out for a while before last year. I am now going out with another guy, and everytime i see joey, my hearts melts and i dont feel like i love my new boyfriend like i should. anyone have some advice, because i love this new guy like crazy as long as joey isn’t around. HELP!

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seekingwolf's avatar

Sounds like you still like Joey quite a bit.

Why did you guys split?

Triozoo's avatar

*continuation from seekingwolf…and also
What made you date the other individual?

PupnTaco's avatar

Sounds like you’re young. You’ll get over it. :)

mangeons's avatar

Does it seem like he still likes you, or even shows an interest in being friends, or something more?

Mizuki's avatar

I suggest that the next time you are at recess maybe pass a note to your friend, instructing your friend to tell one of his friends, and give them the note and have the friend of the friends to tell Joey that some one might like him, if he liked her back, or something like that,.....

mangeons's avatar

@Mizuki That sounds so elementary school! ;) Ahhh, the good old days of elementary school and NO GEOMETRY CRES TESTS NEXT TUESDAY… :)

makemo's avatar

If you feel for Joey much more than your current boyfriend, I would advice you to consider breaking up with your current relationship and take a break from love, for a while. As in, taking a deep breath after diving and reaching the surface again.

Afterwards, if Joey is still around, so to speak: go for him, if you still find him interesting.

bodyhead's avatar

If you kill Joey, you wouldn’t have to see him around anymore.

TitsMcGhee's avatar

How old are you, exactly? It sounds you’re pretty young and relationships are pretty new… But if you really feel like you would choose Joey over the new boyfriend, I would investigate that possibility and not string your new boyfriend along if you would rather be with someone else.

ilovemetrostation's avatar

Ok well my life is really complicated. 15 year old here in school, and my school has the whole popular scene. It has finally occured to me that joey is into the head cheerleader. And we have teams which is like our classes, and joey is not on my team, but he is with the head cheerleader, bailey. I have tried serval times to talk to joey, but he is well.. very very mad. i am so lost but thanks for helping me with this everyone.

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