Aha! I had a long distance boyfriend, and every time before we would see one another, I would make a mix of sexy music. It’s a little more sex focused, but it only gets a little overly sexy in the middle. The general trend for my mixes went like this: mood/making out music, music to boink to, and post-sex romantic music. They were very carefully crafted, haha.
Mix One:
Let’s Get It On – Marvin Gaye
Snakeface – Throwing Muses
Turn Off the Lights – Teddy Pendergrass
Detour – Bis
Protection – Massive Attack
O Mio Babbino Caro – East Village Opera Company
Number One Crush (Porn Remix – Garbage
Face to Face – Siouxsie and the Banshees
Love to Love You Baby – Donna Summer
Essence – Lucinda Williams
Gentle Rain – Stan Getz
When a Man Loves a Woman – Percy Sledge
Will You Still Love Me Tomorrow – Amy Winehouse
Je T’aime Moi Non Plus – Jane Birkin & Serge Gainsbourg
What You Are – Drill
This Year’s Love – David Gray
Mix Two:
Black Velvet – Alannah Myles
I Want You So Bad – Sean Costello
I Wanna Lick You Up and Down – Silk
Satyam Shivam Sundaram – Thievery Corporation
Sweetest Goodbye – Maroon 5
Pitter Patter Goes My Heart – Broken Social Scene
Colorblind – Counting Crows
Ache for You – Ben Lee
Destino de Abril – The Green Car Motel
Hotel – Broken Social Scene
Baby Come Close – Smokey Robinson
Too Close – Next
Drive – Melissa Ferrick
The Promise – Tracy Chapman
Dedicated to the One I Love – the Mamas and the Papas
Don’t I Hold You – Wheat
Naked as We Came – Iron & Wine
Mix Three:
Tell Me (Album Version) – Groove Theory
LapDance – N.E.R.D.
What Would Happen If We Kissed – Meredith Brooks
I Wanna Kiss You All Over – Exile
Distant Lover – Marvin Gaye
Naked – Spice Girls
Wicked Game – Chris Isaak
Ecstasy – Vast
Lover I Don’t Have to Love – Bright Eyes
Overcome – Tricky
Scandalous – Prince
Truly, Madly, Deeply – Savage Garden
Night Drive – Jimmy Eat World
Fade Into You – Mazzy Star
I Want a Little Sugar in my Bowl – Nina Simone
I’ve Got a Crush On You – Frank Sinatra
Mix Four:
Green Eyed Lady – Sugarloaf
It’s a Man’s World – James Brown
The Body that Loves You – Janet Jackson
Summertime – The Zombies
Maria, Maria – Santana
Sex (I’m A) – Lovage
Smoke Baby – Hawksley Workman
Nice and Slow – Usher
In the Waiting Line – Zero 7
Lost Without You – Robin Thicke
Pillow Talk – Sylvia
Honey and the Moon – Joesph Arthur
Only You – Portishead
Les Yeux Ouverts – French Kiss Soundtrack This is a French version of Dream a Little Dream of Me, which was “our song,” so it might not hold the same weight for others…
Lover, You Should Have Come Over – Jeff Buckley
Walking After You – Foo Fighters
Mix Five:
After Dark – Tito and Tarantula
Love Won’t Let Me Wait – Major Harris
Lick – Joi
El Farol – Santana
Six Underground – Sneaker Pimps
Insatiable – Darren Hayes
Any Time, Any Place – Janet Jackson
Sensual Woman – The Herbaliser
Feelin’ Love – Paula Cole
Underwear – Sugarcult
Sexual Healing – Ben Harper
Sexuality – k.d. lang
Let’s Make a Night to Remember – Bryan Adams
Can’t Take My Eyes Off of You – Frankie Valli
Wild Horses – The Sundays
Mix Six:
Undress Me Now – Morcheeba
Dah Dee Dah (Sexy Thing) – Alicia Keys
Make It Good to Me – Sharon Jones & the Dap-Kings
I Care 4 U – Aaliyah
Call My Name – Prince
Anywhere – 112
Cream – Prince
The First Taste – Fiona Apple
Is This Real – Lisa Hall
Red Light Special – TLC
Say Yes – Floetry
Knife – Grizzly Bear
That’s How I Know – D’Nell
Ricky’s Theme – Beastie Boys
It’s Good to Be in Love – Frou Frou
Chills – Ben Lee
In My Lady’s House – Iron & Wine
Mix Seven:
Lay Lady Lay – Magnet and Gemma Hayes
Use Me Up – Bill Withers
Lover I Don’t Have to Love – Bettie Serveert
Oh My God – Pink
Take Off Your Cool – OutKast
I Put a Spell On You – Dana Owens
Beautiful Crazy – Space Raiders
Green Tea – Jon Scofield
Seduction – Usher
Bilingual (Dirty Mix) – Jose Nunez
This Love – Craig Armstrong
Mutilated Lips – Ween
Something to Do with my Hands – Her Space Holiday
Heaven – I Monster
Wrap Your Arms Around Me – Barenaked Ladies
Paris Sunset #7 – Ben Harper & the Innocent Criminals
Love Love Love – Mountain Goats
Mix Eight:
Still Believe in Love – JackSoul
In Love With You – Erykah Badu
Flex – Mad Cobra
You Can Leave Your Hat On – Etta James
When It’s Cold Outside – John Legend
Bulletproof… I Wish I Was – Radiohead
Dirge – Death in Vegas
Strange and Beautiful – Aqualung
Underwater Love – Smoke City
No Ordinary Love – Sade
Dirty Trip – Air
Sideways – Citizen Cope
If Loving You Is Wrong – Luther Vandross
Lay Your Head on My Pillow – Al Green
The Greatest – Cat Power
For Me, This is Heaven – Jimmy Eat World
And a few on a mix-in-progress:
I’m Sorry – Nelly Furtado
For All the Girls – Beastie Boys
When Doves Cry – Damien Rice
The Girl From Nowhere – Ursala 1000
Makes Me Wanna Die – Tricky
Sexy – Black Eyed Peas
… if you can’t tell, I’ve been waiting to share these :D
Sorry this is a ridiculously long answer… Lurve to the question though!