What do you do when you start to lose your best friends?
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January 20th, 2009
Ok so I have 4 best friends. When we hang out we normally split into the same groups of 3 the majority of them time. I will just give you the names cuz it makes it easier to explain. Its always either me, Kate, and Allie or me Jenny and Sebrina. Well lately Kate and Allie have been leavin me out or making me feel like a third wheel. It really hurts cuz we used to all have so much fun together and now i feel like i dont belong in the group. So I started hangin with Jenny and Sebrina more and everything was fine for awhile until they started makin plans behind my back as to not include me. I dont get it. I havent done anything to any of them but yet i feel as if im losing all of my best friends. What should i do. Fix the problems or give them space? Or what cuz i want my friends back =(
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Ask them, if they are your friends, they will tell you.
Accept it and get a new best friend.
This sort of thing has happened to me. sometimes changes in people’s lives make them interested in other things which changes their personality. Not a bad thing, not a good thing. Just a thing that happens.
If you were true best friends, then you’ll stay friends after.
I suggest if you don’t want to lose them. YOU organise something to do with them.
If you care about their friendship then just talk to them. If they are true friends they will understand and help resolve the problem. If they continue to make you feel left out then move on. Cage is right it happens.
Yeah, just ask them what’s up.
honesty is always the best policy (well the majority of the time…) ask them and if you get no truth and no joy and things don’t improve…ask yourself how you are feeling about the situation… if you feel bad about how you are being treated… i would say it’s your soul way of telling you to move on… do what feels good and feels right because then you will be in alignment with your destiny. x
That’s rough.
Try to get one of them on their own and tell them what you’re worried about. Often, girls get caught up in their own thing and ignore others. If you speak to one friend individually, you can get the attention they have been denying you. I find that if I do this, things just work themselves out.
Good luck!
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