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Sleeping: cuddle up or get the f*%# away from me?

Asked by PupnTaco (13895points) January 26th, 2009 from iPhone

A question for couples: do you prefer to cuddle up close when sleeping or do you need your space?

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trumi's avatar

Depends; is the dog in the bed?

Seriously that thing is a pointy furnace.

jrpowell's avatar

I’m a cuddle monster.

aprilsimnel's avatar

I can cuddle for a few minutes before drifting off, but I move a lot as I sleep and I need space.

Zaku's avatar

Cuddle! Not always all the time, though.

lefteh's avatar

Cuddle me!

tennesseejac's avatar

last time i acted like “get the f@%# away from me” i didnt have the option to cuddle the next night… so, if its wanted i can put in some cuddle time, but for a good nights sleep i need to have some space.

TitsMcGhee's avatar

CUDDLE. Even when I’m asleep, I seem to feel better (and get better sleep!) when I have someone with me, even if we’re not touching (although, the more touching the better!).

cak's avatar

We seem to have it down to cuddle – drift apart for part of the night, then cuddle again, sometime before the alarm goes off.

St.George's avatar

Totally need space.

jonsblond's avatar

Cuddle if it’s been a bad day. Otherwise, I need my space when I sleep.

The most important part is the morning quickie

seekingwolf's avatar

I’ll cuddle for 5 minutes and then I roll over.
I’m no better after intimacy either…sometimes the bf complains.

Fieryspoon's avatar

I cuddle to fall asleep, but invariably end up very far away from her in the morning.

Allie's avatar

I snuggle to fall asleep but I end up in other positions by morning. I like it when I wake up and there’s an arm over me though. Cute. (Just don’t smother me, please.)

AstroChuck's avatar

Give me my space!
I only like cuddling when I think it will lead to lower cuddling.

NaturalMineralWater's avatar

Cuddle till she’s asleep.. then space.

augustlan's avatar

Cuddle till he’s asleep…then leave the room for five more hours. When I return to finally go to sleep, I give a quick cuddle, and tell him to scoot over. I need my space.

onesecondregrets's avatar

If I had a significant other, I’d be a cuddle monster. I love falling asleep and being held, at least just a hand on my side. And if I wake up during the night and he’s not touching me in any way at all (hand on my side, around my waist, etc.) I feel a little sad. That sounds so..pathetic but haha it is the truth.

2late2be's avatar

I feel like I’m out of oxigen when cuddling! Maybe while hubby fall asleep but the I need my own space, I move a lot, even more now with my 33 weeks pregnant belly!

dynamicduo's avatar

Cuddle for a bit, but when it comes to sleeping, I need to be not touched, as I can be roused from sleep pretty quickly like that.

MrItty's avatar

Cuddle until my arm falls asleep, then roll over and let the rest of me fall asleep.

EmpressPixie's avatar

Cuddles! Especially with the comforter tucked under us slightly like a cocoon.

chelseababyy's avatar

Cuddle/Spooon. Loves it.

gooch's avatar

Yes I love holding but my wife hates it. She says she is always hot and I am always cold.

eponymoushipster's avatar

depends – is it an hourly rate or the whole night?

nebule's avatar

get the f*&# away from me… bed is for sleeping not being uncomfortable… after the requisite orgasm off course

eponymoushipster's avatar

@lynneblundell i love it when an orgasm is “requisite”.

amberrae's avatar

Im a constant cuddler, sometimes I dont even know Im doing it… like he will go to work and Ill wake up cuddled up to his pillow on his side of the bed….lol

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