How to get my bestfriends sister?

ZOMFG I DID THIS!!!!

One of my best mate’s older sister came onto me. Then she practically raped me. (I say practical because i agreed, but it was still a surprise… i guess you could say it was surprise sex…anyway)
yeah, um.
Well how much younger is this sister for starters? Its like. If you’re 18 and your mate is 18, and then the girl is 16, the parents will hate you and so will the guy.

There’s a million girls out there. Don’t do it. It’s not worth loosing your best friend when things don’t work out.

@elijahsuicide there are a million girls out there, but there’s only a few that push the right buttons.

ok so im 17 my friend is 17 and his sister is 16.

@ThaDUDE hmmmmmmmm, thing is, it’s like. I know that’s not much of an age difference, but to the parents. she’s their little girl, and you’re her OLDER brother’s friend.
I’m not saying not go for it but you know.

I know this is really risky. but you should make a joke about to your mate about his sister. Yes… a sexual one. Why?
If he’s like “hahahaha… yeah I’d break your legs” then don’t do it!

Either that, or do it my way, flirt with her a little, and if she jumps on you, well who are you to blame? You were just being friendly right?

@cage a lot of girls can push buttons for a 17 year old. I don’t mean that to be rude, but you will date more than one girl in your life, I doubt she is the only girl he will ever attracted to. It might be more important to keep a good friend over a crush. If the brother doesn’t mind then go for it.

thanks both of you for the help. im gonna go for it just because shes a complete hotty but no thanks again you guys:)

@ThaDUDE good luck :)

@elijahsuicide I’m 19. Not many girls push my buttons.

@cage ok then. I think we see things differently. I just think friendship is more important than a piece of ass. I learned that when I was a teenager going through this type of situation.

@elijahsuicide hey I know. Bros before Hoes, but you have to learn to create a balance.
If you can’t do that you deserve to fail anyway because it’s a bloody obvious thing to do.

Yeah, and make sure your friend never hears the word “ho” and “your sister” in the same sentence, OK?

The way your write your question implies that you aren’t quite suitable for this young lady for some reason. Make sure you are, and that will help with the parents and your friend. Watch how you talk about other girls with your friend, because he’s going to remember that stuff when you talk to his sister! Just don’t make your whole deal with her be about getting laid. That’s not cool.

Now, because the girl is a human being with feelings too, does she want to date you? If she does, then at her age, she has to have leave to make her own choices, regardless of what her family thinks. I say ask her out.

I would second every suggestion made by wise aprilsimnet. And I would add that your thinking about this relationship as trying to “get a hottie” does not bode well. Perhaps spend more time in English class for the next year. (Do you have a younger sister?)

yeah i do have a younger sister my sister and my friends sister hang out.

All you want to do is get in her pants. You are a PIG and her brother should beat the Hell out of you!!!!

oh wow i never said that….

She may be a hotty, but if she was annoying before, she now an annoying hotty.

“hot younger sister” “trying to get her” “complete hotty”

Parents aren’t dumb. They had hotties in their day, right? They were young people who liked hotties, too! That’s why parents and older brothers will take these words a certain way when it comes to the sweet, innocent girl they love, right? We gather she’s a nice, pretty young lady you’re interested in, just think a little before you respectfully ask her out, is all.

thanks aprilsminel

Awesome coaching, aprilsimnel! I’m impressed.

@Zaku – Thank you.

@ThaDUDE – You’re welcome.

After 35 years my husband just called (last night) his best friend from HS who married (then divorced) his sister. How important is your friendship? could you stand alienating him for 35 years?

Dude, be honest. Do you feel she’s:

A) a nice girl you want to spend time with who happens to be cute

OR

B) a hottie you want to get with

If it’s A and your just articulating it poorly here, then rethink how you speak about her before you ask her parents and brother if they are OK with you dating her.

If it’s B, then do everyone involved (including yourself) a favor and let it go.

To be blunt, as a father of a daughter, when I hear “hottie I want to get with”, I HEAR “my daughter you want to fuck”.

Trust me, you DON’T want me hearing that.

I suspect i’s more a matter of convenience than anything else. You’re hanging with your friend, using his entertainment system, eating out of his kitchen, then li’l sis walks past, right?

GET YOUR BUTT OFF THE COUCH, YOU LAZY SOD, AND GO FIND YOUR OWN GIRL!!!