Where do you think i can find my dream girl?
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February 4th, 2009
Okay so today in school a week after moving in with my dad, i notice i dont think ANY of the girls here are pretty, or my style. I am a HUGE flirt, i lovvvvveeeeeee girls, and sometimes they like me too. The thing is im used to open minded white girls.I know it sounds shallow and a little racist but i’ve never been attracted to anything else.
When i say open minded i mean…into a lot of different things. For example im BIG on music and its impossible for me to find a girl who i find pretty and likes the sounds of a tribe called quest, biggie, lil wayne, bruce springsteen, marc anthony, and some random rock bands…you get the picture.
My problem now is that i live in TRENTON. Not the biggest selection of my kind of girls. What do you suggest i do and where do i go looking for them. Or do i just suck it up and settle with what i have hear….blah.
oh and ladies if youre interested, im a 17 year old spanish kid about 5’6 i wear glasses and have a excellent sneaker collection. and i can draw/cook/and sing =D
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So… does she have to match your taste in music? or can you match hers?
Free your mind and your ass will follow.
You want your dream girl to be open-minded but most open-minded girls will be attracted to an open-minded person themselves. Open your own mind a bit and see what happens. You might be happier if you did.
@cyndyh i actually never thought of it like that, i guess im just used to just girls being everywhere and now that theres less to choose from….im kinda narrowing everything down
Be open-minded – you might be surprised what your kind of girl turns out to be.
@jamzzy: I moved a lot as a kid, and here’s something I learned from it. Every place has something going for it, and every place can seem lacking in some respects. If you open your mind a little about the place and the people you can find yourself a lot happier. You’ll start focusing on what Trenton has instead of what it doesn’t have and you’re bound to find something you like about it, some new interest developing, and some new friends. I wish you luck. Cheers!
What no Barbie Dolls in Trenton?
Seriously- to limit yourself to a physical description will trip you up.
The most incredible people in the world are out there- and you might walk on
by because instead of concentrating on who you want to date you are concentrating on
what you want to date.
Stop worrying and be yourself and the right one will come along. You’ll know it when she does.
Look younger. I am thinking girls your own age won’t be immature enough to go for you.
First of all, “suck up”. Yes, you’ll have to make do with whatever Trenton has to offer.
Having said that, the best way to meet girls (and make friends in general) is to hang out at places of common interest. So, since you like music so much, go to places that play your favourite type of music. Sure, you’ll find lots of ugly girls there, but even if there’s one pretty one at least you know that you two have the same taste to start with. And you might meet some guy who has a sister or a cousin.
You’re new in this town. It will take you a while to adapt, but once you get to meet some people, girls will follow. There’s always someone out there. You’ll see :)
@jamzzy OK, you are young and now I am feeling bad I was sarcastic.
Seriously, I suggest you not be so focused on how the girls look. Get to know some; you may surprise yourself by coming to like a few—at least as friends.
Also, why do the girls all have to be to be into what you are into? Why not check out what they like? (Hint: you could develop a new interest.) What about introducing a girl who is not yet into it to the things that you like?
Finally, I am a little troubled about you and the “white girls” comment. My concern is that it tends to imply you find white girls better in some way. That says to me that you are not comfortable with your own heritage. I think that if you were, you would be open to girls who were hispanic or whatever too. Something ot think about, anyway.
At 17 why do you have to find a “dream girl”? And, can you really have evaluated your entire school and community in just one short week?
How about focusing on meeting people, guys and girls who have similar interests or maybe dissimlar interests to broaden your horizons. @cyndyh is right. Free your mind and be open to this new experience.
Maybe it’s not the girls or the school or the community that’s unattractive…
You live in Trenton? Jersey?
Move out of Jersey.
I’m a jersey girl and believe me, I moved, I found someone great :D
its a very tiny private school…..blah.
The tiny private school is not the whole of your existence, though. Think about what else is available to you.
@jamzzy I love it too! I have much pride. But seriously. Broaden your horizons.
Best of luck to you, little bro. :^>
Depends upon what is your dream girl.. Who knows she might be just around your neighboorhood..
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