Why is self definition an important part of growing up?

There are so many possible paths to take – in careers, relationships, faiths, life experiences – that not knowing what’s meaningful to you is paralyzing. We would miss out on so much if we didn’t have any idea how to fulfill ourselves. In becoming an independent citizen of the world, I think it’s important for us to find out what life and its possibilities and experiences mean to us so we can set about making our time here the best it can be.

Also, you’ll fall for anything if you don’t stand for something.

If none of us became independent in our thinking, we’d all be Republicans.

Learning self-discipline while taking responsibility for your own actions. Avoiding peer pressure as best as you can and concentrating more on making sound decisions by yourself. Understanding how important self-esteem and self-worth is and beginning to recognize your strengths that will benefit you throughout your lifetime.

I think it is important because it compels you to analyze your life and helps you to distinguish aspects that make you unique from others.

You are what you love, not what loves you back.

I don’t know if that’s true. I haven’t fully defined who I am and I’ve gro…

Nevermind.

Allowing other people to define you is a sure way to become a confused person. We are all meant to be independent and responsible to and for ourselves as adults, and when we aren’t living that way, but letting others call the shots, we end up extremely unhealthy and unhappy.