Am I justified in feeling weird here?

she is just being a ____… consider the source…

Sounds like she’s trying to make you feel jealous or just bad in general.

she’s screwing with you dude. forget her.

Consider the source!!!!! This is a woman who told you she liked women and then slept with you. If anyone is mixed up about their sexuality it is your ex. She has also demonstrated hurtful behavior and manipulative behavior before. Do you think she has suddenly become nicer since the break up?

She sounds EVIL! Tell her to go jump off a cliff!

Sounds like you better count your lucky stars she’s your ex.
Much luff to you, Loser. It’ll be ok. (hugs)

@Loser You need to know that you don’t need to waste your time with someone who acts as childish as she does. You should know that somewhere out there is a girl who will love and appreciate you and treat you the way that you deserve to be treated. Don’t waste even one second of your precious time on your ex. The next time she calls either hang up one her or don’t answer. If you bump into her in public walk away and don’t even give her the time of day. I have found that when dealing with someone such as her ( I dated some doosies before I met my husband.) The best thing you can do is IGNORE them because all they want is attention and when they can’t get it it drives them nuts. This gives you the upper hand. You won’t believe how empowering it is…Try it! Good Luck!

She sounds like a real dish rag, man.

@loser. You should feel satisfied that you aren’t with her anymore. You know you’re way better than that and you know you deserve and can get someone who is much more special than her. Next time you pass a mirror, throw yourself a smile and remember that you’re a cut above the rest. Have a great weekend too!

Look on the bright side. You’re desirable to women and men… :-) Just like David Beckham.

Wow! You mean your not gay?

Like the others have said: consider the source! She’s a recent ex – it’s highly improbable that she’s trying to give you helpful advice or information.
Sounds to me like she’s trying to validate herself by making you feel bad….....don’t let her!

Totally agree with shilolo; take it as a compliment and leave it at that :)

Even if it were true, would it matter? Unless you’re homosexual or bisexual and would be interested in possibly dating one of them, I don’t see how it should really make any difference. If you were bisexual, I’d say maybe she was trying to hook you up. If she knows full well that you aren’t (which I suspect is the case), then she’s only trying to get your goat.

And goats. Don’t forget the goats. They also find you very handsome.

Seriously, tell her to take a long walk off a short pier and block her number or screen your calls.

She clearly is fucking with you (again). I know it’s hard to believe right now, but soon, her opinion will not matter to you – once you’ve gained some perspective.

Yeah, I would block that number with a quickness. You don’t need this! Forget her!

Just wanted to say I’m proud of you for making her your ex!

@cprevite:lol Picturing Kyle being followed around by fawning goats.

@AC: No, I just play one on TV!
Seriously, thank you everyone. I just really needed some sort of reality check.

I think you’re wonderful!

…And I’m so happy you started with “My new EX gf”. Way to stand up for yourself! Now you can really be the best you, without all her drama & static.

hugs.

Actually it sounds like she was at the restaurant and was thinking about how uncomfortable she would feel if you showed up there, so she called you and told you something that would make you uncomfortable going there.

The best thing for you to do is to just go about your life, go to the restaurant if you want, do whatever and just ignore her.

Man, I could have sworn…

I agree with Fireside, it sounds like she wants to get the eatery in the breakup and is trying to make you uncomfortable enough to never go there again.

Could just be a statement of fact. Looks like your in the SF bay area, and trans guys are in right now ;-) I’d say if you are bi, get while the getting is good. You know how these SF gay boys are, before you know it trans boys are out and big boys with side burns will be in.

Wait a minute. Let me get this straight. Loser is not gay. Is that right?

Sounds like maybe Chuckie wants to wait on loser : )