Addictions are brain disorders, like other brain disorders. Perhaps they are not the same thing as diseases. However, even though they are disorders, it is very difficult to try to cope with them on your own. It is possible, but it can be made much easier if one takes proper medications and has proper psychological support.
With alcoholism, as far as I know, the medications are not very effective. For other brain disorders, there are much more effective medications. Often alcoholism is a co-morbidity with other brain disorders, such a bipolar disorder. With bipolar, alcohol is often used as a medication to deal with the problems, and this will lead to alcoholism.
Having this experience, and having heard that in many cases, alcohol is used to self-medicate for other reasons, such as bad relationships, and the like, I am of a mind to think that alcoholism is often a symptom of something else, and you can’t really treat it without treating that something else.
It is extraordinary to me how chemicals can have an enormous impact, not only on behavior, but on thoughts. I have felt my medications change my thoughts quite dramatically. I wouldn’t be surprised if alcohol works on the brain to change the thoughts of the alcoholic. It is a depressant, and when you’re depressed it’s hard to do anything. It is extremely difficult to lift yourself out of the pits.
Now to say someone chose to become an alcoholic might be true on the face of it, but I don’t think it’s true when you are using alcohol to treat something else. Similarly, just because some people can make it out of alcoholism on their own, doesn’t mean that everybody should. If we are compassionate, we’ll help. If we’re jerks, we won’t. Tough love is a bullshit response to these things. It just leads to suicide, or worse.
Now the notion of what is a disease and what isn’t is a big conflict in the medical community. Things constantly change, as definitions and understandings change. They used to call bipolar disorder a mental illness, but there is a movement afoot to reclassify it as a medical condition. The significance of this is that, as a medical condition, it will be paid for much more completely by insurance. Otherwise, it doesn’t change the treatment at all.
People seem to think that if there is some voluntary component involved in getting an addiction, those who are addicted should be able to take care of their problem on their own. These people don’t believe in mental illness. I used to not believe in mental illness, until I got one. I used my disbelief to actually make myself worse. The attitude that mental illnesses, including alcoholism, are not diseases, and therefore should be treated differently is off the mark. Usually it comes from people who have not experienced any problems like this, or if they have, they have managed to treat themselves. Most people can’t treat themselves. Self-treatment would be like trying to sew up a wound without a needle.
Alcoholism, whether you call it a disease or not, needs to be treated by experts. It is a mental illness, and deserves everyone’s compassion.