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Do homosexual men prefer partners with big penises?

Asked by pigpen (154points) February 17th, 2009

I think its safe to say that straight women prefer the larger men, but I have a gay friend who just introduced his new boyfriend to me and he is about 6’5” /250lbs. And, all I could think was…. Ouch

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La_chica_gomela's avatar

I don’t think it’s true that straight women (all, or even most) prefer bigger penises. As for gay men, I can’t really comment, since I’m not one.

DrasticDreamer's avatar

I’m with La chica gomela on that one.

eponymoushipster's avatar

this clip will answer all your questions regarding this.

cak's avatar

Actually, I’m with La Chica and DrasticDreamer.

MacBean's avatar

Yes. All of them. Every single homosexual man has exactly the same personal preferences as all the others.

tennesseejac's avatar

@La_chica_gomela
@DrasticDreamer
@cak

So, all this time I have been self conscious about my size when it really doesn’t matter? I have never heard a woman say she prefers a smaller guy

cak's avatar

@tennesseejac – Larger is not always better and truly, the nerve ending in a female – are higher, not lower…larger is not great for that part of how we are designed.

MacBean's avatar

@tennesseejac As a female-bodied person who prefers a partner with a penis, let me say: I prefer smaller guys. Anything much larger than what qualifies as average is not pleasurable.

cak's avatar

Also, for the record, my husband is 6’5”. I have zero complaints, whatsoever. The asker may assume we’re talking one size, but it’s very much in a normal range. Which is very, very good.

DrasticDreamer's avatar

@tennesseejac What a lot of guys fail to realize is that, typically, anything longer than average – which is what? I can’t remember exactly… 5 to 6 inches, right? – is kind of a waste. The typical vagina can literally only take in about that much. Anything bigger and it could be painful due to a guy trying to go too far.

La_chica_gomela's avatar

Aw, TN, you’re such a guy! I think it’s so funny how many men somehow come to their own conclusions about what women want, which ya’ll tend to think is “the bigger, the better” when that’s wildly different from what many (i would say most) of us actually want (which is just love and adoration anyway, but that’s another topic).

Honestly? For me personally? I’ve never been with someone extremely large or extremely small, but anywhere between (just guessing 5 to 8 inches) I have no preferences. I absolutely cannot have a quickie with a guy with a bigger one though. I can get used to the larger end of that scale, but the guy is going to have to work harder at foreplay. The smaller end of that scale is very pleasant under any circumstances.

Take that for what it’s worth.

tennesseejac's avatar

YESSSSS!! thanks ladies

La_chica_gomela's avatar

Actually it’s a lot like the “big boobs” question that’s right below this one. Many women have this idea that all men prefer “the bigger, the better” when really, a lot of men on the thread said that’s not even what they like! (It seems the same to me, anyway, but I’m not a guy, so I don’t really know, feel free to tell me it’s BS)

cak's avatar

@tennesseejac – no problem!

Kiev749's avatar

eh i’ve never had a complaint and im not above 8” in response to the ongoing thread. I’m not homosexual or anything.

cak's avatar

@La_chica_gomela – that reminds me of a one time only conversation my husband and I had. He asked if I would ever consider having mine increased, I asked if he would consider having his reduced. ‘nuff said!

La_chica_gomela's avatar

No kidding, I’m not having my body cut up in any way unless it’s for a reason. Like to avoid dying.

artificialard's avatar

Is this assuming that a larger man has a larger penis? I don’t think that’s necessarily the case…?

La_chica_gomela's avatar

@artificialard, i took pigpen’s statement of women preferring “larger men” as a euphemism for men with larger penises.

(and i wanted to take issue with that as well, but since i was already disagreeing with the premise once, i didn’t want to sound overly disagreeable, but just coming in and saying, i disagree with you on this, this, this, this, and this)

AstroChuck's avatar

If they do I guess they wouldn’t bother with me.

TaoSan's avatar

so all my wishing I had a “third leg” instead of a “third thumb” was for zilch?...oh well…

Johnny_Rambo's avatar

I’m not cutting off ANY of it just to make someone happy.

POP_EYE

cwilbur's avatar

WIthout going into too much gruesome detail, it’s possible to hit all the appropriate spots, thus fulfilling the practical part of having a partner with a penis, with something about the size of a thumb. Anything more than that is purely personal preference.

elijah's avatar

Am I the only girl who is going to say size does matter?!? I don’t like huge, dont get me wrong. That’s painful. But 6” isn’t making me happy.

Johnny_Rambo's avatar

….........and you have very right to want more than 6”....call me cupid. :) lol

tennesseejac's avatar

@elijahsuicide so, you had to go and burst my bubble…

Bagardbilla's avatar

@elijahsuicide
Or as my brother jokes “I can give you all 18” ( it’ll have have to be 4.5” x four times and we’ll call it a night). :0

evelyns_pet_zebra's avatar

Okay, I have several gay friends, so I guess I might be an expert on this subject. Many of the stereotypes of gay men are not true. Many of what heterosexuals assume about gay men are not true. Two of my gay friends don’t even consider penis size a factor, as they are attracted to guys for reasons above the briefs. If you love someone, what they are ‘bringing to the party’ isn’t as important as you might assume. Believe it or not, some gay guys are bigger prudes than many straight guys when it comes to sex.

pigpen's avatar

@evelyns_pet_zebra But they still like the penis, right?

evelyns_pet_zebra's avatar

@pigpen, well yeah, because it does all come down to sex in the end. <—That is not a pun. One very good friend of mine who is gay finds the concept of anal sex disgusting and has never indulged in it, nor does he even consider it a part of his sexual preference/activities.

Which makes him a bigger prude than many straight people.

George444's avatar

Base of what i hear about men and women’s point of views of “Size Matters in Sex”, Interms of
what i believe, all this crap about every has to be big bigger and biggest. many men and teens swears that all women wants guys to have thier penises to be more than bigger swearing that it has to be one way only. All CRAP. I’m a man who has a penis that grows from 3–6 inches depending of my desire towards women, and i’m sick of tired people calling me ultimate faggot gay because my rest state (faccid) is so small (with lots of extra foreskin) that the new born baby has more than me, by birth defect. but i grow like normal men. Because its not standard like everyone in society, i be casted out by those who sweared that it has to be one way, VERY BIG> when i was a kid even got beat-up by Gays and Predijust older straight males because It do not meet STANDARD of Gay and for those who make me look bad to their women for some who see the truth have fantesy of my baby webito not to be confused with libby’s. i being decriminated because men hate baby webito penis in man’s body. When these hate-fall gays and bias straight men and teens cruxify me , they say ” YOU HAVE TO HAVE 7 inCHES + or more then I“M not gay. All this crap about everything has to be biggest of world. ex. when lots of men ,teens from high school, and even elemetery school boy compeating for the same females, some says “come have sex with me,i have a big dick. the other guy says mine is bigger. And lots of these male swears,claimed and back-up their big huge sizes. “size matter” . But when you asked many women in society about those 7+”‘s, 10 inches, bigger than guys heads, monsterous sizes, many woman complained that they do not get to see those big,bigger,biggest penises. If you ask women of their men’s penis size, what do their men really have in real life? what are women prefrence penis sizes they look for men? To me when it comes to getting those bigs huges penises, women can not compete with the gays in attracting those big penis. Talk about you have to have more than 7 inches+ than you not gay. But if you ask the Gays what size of penis do they worship and praised? if you go to a pono shops and check out cover of tapes or dvds, when you check women to men vs gay sex, foe ex. titles for gay, massive meat, humongous fatesies, hung horse, meat packages etc., gay sex large majarity them have way much larger penis like 12” gay to gay more when women having sex with men. i even see a cover of one texas man with 4” penis having sex with 4 women weighing 250lbs, 300lbs+ with very wide Butts. talk about Size matter. The way i see it “the more bigger a men have there penis the more gay the man be. In conclution, Homosexals want more bigger penises than what women want… Ask any gay man ,whould he bow his butt and give his ass to a man that have the actual size of “2 ”‘s LIBBY VIENNA SACHICHA stiff fully erect hard skinless. My less than newborn webito do not meet standard of gay. Finnally, there should be a servey of when women and men, gays men have sex,What is the men’s actual penis size to see , in sex world, which sex gender’s gets the marjarity of the big penises? i need to know because i be cast out for what i have that noone seen for 500 years , actual baby thing. thank you for your reply.

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