@SherlockPoems: well, I can only share my thoughts ‘cause it’s clear Mrswho and I don’t agree. :P
I think we derive our own personal value systems, the things we choose to live by and others to ignore, from all sorts of things—the way our parents raise us, our experiences, what we learn from other people, etc. But I also think there’s an underlying greater law to morality to which some (though not all) people are constantly seeking to align their values to, and I believe in this because I also have faith in God. A greater power, supreme being…people can call him what they like. I just attribute an overall law to how things should be to Him because I think he’s in ultimate control of how things run. The primary revelation of this law would be the Ten Commandments, or even simpler the first two.
But just because we have all these things and people to be influenced by doesn’t mean we have to follow what we learn from them, if we learned anything at all. In the end, I think we choose to value what we want to value, and our actions will sometimes confilict with our values, simply because we naturally struggle with living out morally upright lives. And because we were given the free will to follow whatever values we wanted to in the first place.
@fireside: I think you can change your value system over time, augment it or adjust it to your experiences and what you learn. When I hear “value” system or morality, though, I think of how we prioritize certain things. Where does our moral compass, so to speak, point when we’re trying to decide how to live our lives? A person may, for example, value becoming/being affluent over all else, while the next person down might put love and generosity at the top. I think we tend to focus on certain values more than we do others, even if we’d like to think that all of our values are equal. And maybe some of them are. It’s just sometimes our actions reveal to us how we may otherwise see them. As they say, “Actions speak louder than words.”
But even so, I wouldn’t say this at all changes the overlying “greater law” of what’s good and what’s bad. Unlike the physal laws of our universe and all the matter which follows those laws, I think we are born with the ability to break this higher moral law (free will), but we also must live out the consequences, which is why the world goes through so much struggling. But in regard to the physical laws of the universe, we are not free.
Meh, long answer. But that’s how I see it.