Conservation actions are not inherently wrong or right. However, in my experience they often have an inherent rational basis for challenging the logic of continuing to pursue short-sighted goals which result in long term negative ecological consequences for us and future generations.
“How are human-caused pressures different from outside forces, like a meteor strike?”
Unlike a meteor strike we have a vested interest in the continued ecological state of this planet. So this question has a inherent implication that perhaps we too can look on as an outside force, with relative indifference to the loss of species. But species loss doesn’t just affect the emotions of the conservation minded. Every one of us relies on ecosystems and their component biodiversity for support services (nutrient cycling), provisioning services (foods, freshwater), and regulating services (climate regulation, flood regulation), not to mention biopharmaceuticals etc.
“Of course, diversity in animal and plant life is important, but, by protecting species that would otherwise go extinct, are we, ourselves, selecting for weaker species?”
I understand the issue you’re raising, but I think this is confusing the pattern and the process. Our actions are resulting in a pattern of extinction which is operating at approximately 100+ times the natural back ground rate of extinction. The processes which drive this pattern (over-exploitation, habitat degradation, exotic species introductions, climate change) affect both the abiotic and the biotic environment, and thus ourselves. Overfishing and fisheries collapses, land clearing and salinity problems in agricultural lands/increased carbon emissions, loss of wetlands and inland storm flooding/loss of fish nurseries, excess fertilizer and algae bloom fish kills, habitat change and pollinator declines, all these things link the loss of species with negative impacts on human lives. So if the protection targets the causal factor for the extinction, it may well be protecting far more than just the poster species used to sell the concept (if your talking about an environmental NGO for instance).
So yes, some conservation actions which target an individual species may be attempting to save a species which is unlikely to ever be suited to the conditions that we are increasingly creating on this planet. However, conservation actions are increasingly focused less on individual species, and more on degrading processes and associated changes to whole communities. Such actions are often as much in our long-term interest as they are in the interest of the individual species which reap the benefits.