I know I’m in for it with this one, but WTF…
People seem to throw the word pedophile around quite easily these days, but medically speaking, pedophilia is a mental disorder that results in a sexually mature adult human having a sexual preference for prepubescent children. Therefore, a sexually mature human having a sexual attraction to another sexually mature human is not pedophilia, regardless of their ages, and, in fact, it is quite normal. By what seems to be the PC definition (which does not correspond w/ the scientific definition, unsurprisingly), a 16 year old girl who molests an 8 year old boy is not a pedophile, but a 30 year old woman who has consensual sex with a 17 year old “boy” is a pedophile? Where’s the logic in that? Oh yeah, there isn’t any, it’s all just based on our “morals” & religious beliefs, Puritanical that they are. Some religious types and Andrea Dworkin (RIP) may not want to hear it, but that 50 year old “perv” staring lasciviously at the scantily clad 16 year old girls in the pizza parlour is just a regular, normal functioning human, and if our brains weren’t wired like this, our species would never have made it this far. (And if you think this all just sounds like a rationalization for a 30-something person to not feel bad about being sexually attracted 15, 16 & 17 year old sexually mature people of the opposite gender, you’re absolutely frickin’ right!!! There is nothing “wrong” with it, naturally speaking. It doesn’t mean we act on it, but it also doesn’t mean that something is wrong with you and you certainy shouldn’t feel like you are a “bad” person or feel “ashamed” of these perfectly natural thoughts. And if you do have a problem w/ it, it’s most likely you who has been been brainwashed and is, in fact, probably in denial!)
And before you even start, no where did I state that it was ok to lie, manipulate or deceive anyone in to having sex they wouldn’t normally have, regardless of their age. And I know we have supposedly “advanced” and we must now draw the line somewhere, and I agree with that, but I get tired of people using their religiously inspired “morals” to condemn what is merely natural human behaviour. (And please don’t try to draw some ridiculous parallels to other un-ethical behaviours based on that last statement. Of course I’m not saying rape or murder are ok, or even natural human behaviour. So just save your breath).
Ok, I now wait to be drawn & quartered. Have at me!