How do i get the person i am in love with to fall for me?

Be yourself. If he doesn’t like your real self, it’s not worth your time. No matter how twitterpated he makes you.

Just be yourself. Have fun. Congratulations to you! You’ve discovered one of the greatest feelings on the planet.

I think that a good start would be to get to know him. Find an excuse to talk to him, be yourself, and have fun. If he smiles every time he sees you, then he probably already somewhat likes you.

If all else fails I suggest trying the Stockholm syndrome.

You can’t get the person to fall in love with you.
As everyone else says, the best you can do for that to possibly happen is to be yourself.

Watch He’s Just Not That Into You, I’m swearing by that movie from now on.

To Attract a Lover
Get a two or three inch piece of copper tubing. Write the name of your intended on a piece of paper seven times. Place the paper in the tube and close its ends with a pair of pliers. Wear the tube around your neck for seven days and your intended will come to you.

For more help:

http://www.thelovespells.com/basic.html

I agree with galileogirl, do every love spell in the book.

okay i deffinatly am myself and i put a lot of effort into talking to him about anything i’ll pretend to get something to to talk and i really want him to be in my life and his son just makes me want to be with him more everyday my feelings get stronger and stronger for him

Get caught staring at him, by him. Not in a creeperish way, but in a cute faux embarrass way. How old are you though as an honest question. :)

i’m 18

just pull him aside, dont say a word and kiss him…

i’m just not sure how he feels and i don’t really want to give him a big shock and make myself look liek a fool

I would just say be cute and don’t try too hard. Let him come to you. Talk his friends up find out what and who he’s interested in.

Read this.

No I am not kidding.

I agree with tennesseejac, but go a step further & strip off a few clothes before you kiss him. Nudity is the way to a man’s heart.

That’s not his heart.

Same thing more or less, isn’t it? I mean, close enough & better than nothing. Fun & amusing at the very least. You’ve got nothing to lose, it might work!

@psyla if they are in a public place, nudity and jumping someone may also lead to county jail

absolutly not true.. guys dig confedince and thats what i’m trying to do, also to make him see that i am amazing with his son cause the main thing he wants is a woman who is good with his son

In jail together, ah! how romantic!

wtf

I don’t know babe, they must be bored or something. I’m going to bed. Good luck. :)

@megs If you know so much, why are you asking for advice. BTW is wtf proper from a mommy-figure wannabe?

i’m not asking for some stupid love spells, i’m asking how i’m suppose to confront him and tell him how i’m feeling

@megs ummmm, that is pretty much how you do it…. “confront him and tell him how you feel”. and then kiss him.

you guys don’t know what your talking about this is a waste of my time i’m peacin to go bun

Toodles and don’t forget

Take the candle and place it on a table or your altar. Now take the olive oil and rub on to the candle starting in the middle and going up, then starting in the middle going down. While purifying the candle with the oil, you want to recharge the candle with love and desire, so visualize love and channel all your emotion into the candle. After the oil is finished, take a knife and carve what it is you want into the candle

“peacin to go bun”?

@megs you’re right, we have no idea what we’re talking about.
did you say you were 18?
and trying to get a guy (with a son) to fall in love with you?
and you think you “could never meet anyone better than him”?

wow.

wow maybe you just haven’t experienced what i’ve gone through i never thought i could fall in love again i thought because of my ex i was worthless and a joke but i’m better then that and i know i am and i deserve the est and he is deffinatly the best i’ve seen for a long time

Start with spelling “definitely” right and learning about run-on sentences. That’s a good beginning.

And it’s true. No one here has ever felt lustful. So it is possible that confrontation often generates reciprocal feelings, I am told.

@megs are you sure you didnt lie about your age? you sound like you are 14.

3 Questions:

1. Might I ask how you know him and possibly his age?

2. Can we try to be a little more conciderate to a reletively new member? Seems like she’s kind of getting ganged up on here.

3. Did you make a typo with “peacin to go bun” or is that some kind of phrase.

As for advice my initial thoughts are that you should become good friend and kind of hint around liking him.

carving his name into your arm will really show him some commitment…

Ah. Young emo cutter love.

Him coming home to a dimly lit house and finding you rocking his child in your arms in a dark corner seems to work in movie previews I have seen…

okay well he is 25,
it is a phrase
and i do give hints to him.

You’re 18, and he’s 25 with a kid? He’s in a completely different stage of life than you are. Somehow, I don’t see success.

well why not, my ex boyfriend is 24 and he got me pregnant..i don’t see anything wrong with his age or mine, i care about him and his son

and tell me this why does he call me all the time just to talk to me?

Because you are obsessed and don’t know how to just say “no” and find something less masochistic to focus on.

“my ex boyfriend is 24 and he got me pregnant.” You had no responsibilty in your getting pregnant?

Maybe you need to work on your issues before getting romantically involved again.

this is getting scary… Is this a promotion for the upcoming movie Obsessed staring Beyonce and Ali Larter?

i’m definatly not obsessed, i just don’t give up on what i want, i’m not a quitter and my feelings for him ar very strong and its hard, i had an abortion but we were togther for a long time

P.S don’t have abortions sometimes they fuck you up..i can’t have kids anymore, and it was only after i had aborted, i think thats what makes me like him more is the fact he has a son and i can’t explain how it makes me feel seeing him with his son i just love it so much cause he has so much love for his son and it just amazes me

Woah, you changed your avatar. Anyway, I think you should listen to whatever insticts you have and see how things go from there. This does look like it would make a good movie or book plot if all else fails.

You said you are no quitter but in order to quit you have to start and according to your posts, this ‘relationship’ hasn’t even started at least on his part. You were a little unclear when you talked about your feelings for ‘him’ then switched to a seemingly unrelated abortion. It feels like you are focussing on this guy and your imaginary future to avoid dealing with some of your own issues. Get yourself right and understand your motivations before you try to force yourself on someone else.

okay well i know where i stand and i know how i feel i don’t focus on him to avoid my issues, i’m a very happy person and i dont have a lot of drama in my life i stay away from all that.
i am not forcing myself on him, i don’t talk to him about my feelings for him.
all i’m trying to here is get some good advice but it doesn’t look like a lot of you know how to give good advice you just talk about a movie, that has nothing to do with me or him at all

@megs- Why are you attacking those who are just trying to help? You asked a question and these people are answering. Perhaps you don’t agree with what they say, and that’s fine, but I don’t understand all the hostility.

well i don’t agree with it because it’s not true

show him your boobs. that always works for me

I’m not like that, the only way i’ll do anything other then kiss is when i’m in a relationship.
My beliefs are a lot different from others not just that but other things too, the way i was raised was sex after marriage it didn’t really turn out like that but i’ve only had sex with one person and i was dating him for 3 years so yeah obviously i put out.
I’m not suppose to reveal myself or have sex unless i’m in a relationship.

@Megs: And other than the art of repetition, what have you learned from this discussion? (ten minutes; 50% of grade.)

OK your choices are step back (offered by a majority of responders) or show him your boobs (tenneseejac). You really only want to hear you are right and everyone else is wrong. Majority loses, do what you really want to do-tell him you have feelings for him, watch his dust and learn a really embarrassing lesson. BTW Susie-Q, people have had these feelings for 10’s of thousands of years, you are not unique. Learn from people with experience or learn the hard way.

I have to go with tennesseejac on this one.

@AstroChuck I am sure tennesseejac would enjoy seeing your boobs, too

Well, they have been getting bigger lately, I must admit.