Confused?

Talk outside of class. Maybe he wants to study during class.

We do talk outside of class, but when were in the classroom he doesnt even acknowledge me

maybe he is to busy listening to the teacher instead of thinking about talking with you? go with the flow, and be yourself and if it’s meant to be then it is.

I agree. Talk to him outside the classroom. If you have nothing to say, you can start the conversation by asking him why he ignores you during class. In my “boy perspective” I have no idea why he would ignore a girl unless he fought with her. :) my explanation would be that he’s a nerd… maybe he studies like crazy or something

Thanks Your right i should talk to him outside of class. It would be a good icebreaker to ask him why he ignores me. I think he takes the class seriously hes majoring in theater arts and our class is theater appreciation.

ah that explains a lot :)
who knows? maybe he loves you and he blushes or stutters or something when he talkes to you so he might just be running away :) good luck!

Do you usually talk alone? some guys tend to get insecure around girls they like and are afraid it shows… so maybe starting a conversation in a room full of people you both know puts him in a tough spot.. give him a chance to ger more comfortable around you and he might come around soon. Good luck!

Thanks Dr. C, Ive talked to him after class alone. Your right will see what happens.

I agree with Frigate, he could probably feeling the same way and doesnt want to say anything. I know when i had a crush on a girl in high school or any school for that matter i was so much more afraid of rejection then anything else, but we all are. Just take the leap!

If he feels like you are waiting for him to talk, he probably gets all nervous. When you get to class, make eye contact, give him your prettiest smile, say hello and then just sit down. Occasionally drop a compliment (I like your shirt). Don’t keep glancing at him. If he feels like all you do is look for ways to get his attention he will get scared. Guys like confidence. Let him see that you have things to do besides think about him. Guys like a woman that plays hard to get!
Good luck!

@Elijah
I agree! But don’t say that comment or compliment the way that, uh, you watched High School Musical: Senior Years? The way Sharpay talks. It usually makes the guy feel either very happy or EXTREMELY weird because you’re talking to him like all sweet looking and there’s this gooey feeling all rolling off of you :)

Haha Thanks guys all your answers helped alot ;)

so what happened? I’m dying to know :)

yeah!!!!! what happened? we’re on pins and needles here!

Well today after class he rushed out of the class room and i thought my chances are gone but he waited for me ;) And now were going to the play at our college in march. Im so excited thanks to all you guys for your advice

Congratulations!

WAY TO GO GIRL!

Don’t forget to name your first born after me.. and make sure he/she goes to med school! :p hahahahahahaha j/k.

Congratulations.. i hope things go really well for you!

Thanks guys it means alot ;)

congrats!! I envy you so much..I wish some girl would come up and maybe say I luv you…lol

Another Fluther enthusiast added to the list

dont envy me one day youll meet someone who will say that to you

sigh….within the next 50 years I hope…

Trust me, when it happens – you’ll realise it was worth the wait. (however long it is) !