Why is it soo hard to for a GIRL TO FIND a GOOD GUY?

whoa. Just… whoa.

because women always try to find “the guy.” you want him to be intelligent, look good, drive a nice car, make money. you want him to be “fine as hell!” you want him to be romantic and do all the “valentine’s day” stuff that’s supposed to “be.”

but “that guy” is not attractive to you. he does not have “the look.” sometimes it is not at all about “the look.” it’s the character. when women can get past height and weight and income and see the inner person, there she will find her mate.

wow….. uhm…... . <———- thats a period.

Lust: the guy who every girl wants.

Love: the guy you did not notice at first.

That is one awesome run on sentence in your details up there, let me tell you. I had to read it a couple of times before I could decipher it.

Men are labeled such things as ‘dogs’ and ‘pigs’ because some of them don’t have the most scrupulous or best interests at heart when it comes to women. Not all of us are bad but there are some choice guys out there that you should avoid and you happened to have found ‘one of those’ guys, it seems.

Consider being more selective in who you’d like to date and/or associate with and if it takes a little more time than usual, be patient because your happiness is what counts the most. Best of luck to you in this and I hope you find someone really special to be with.

the answer to this contains two parts
a) most guys aren’t really that “good”. you always see the perfect, handsome, wonderful, coy, romantic, daring men in movies and expect that, and you are always disappointed without fail. and all guys like to have their little jerk-ish type idiosyncracies that they must constantly display that make us dislike them, though they may not actually be that bad.
b) girls ALWAYS go for the wrong guys. as i’ve stated, they’re too picky and go for the super sexy, usually rude men. you need to really get to know a guy, regardless of his looks, money, ambition, etc., and, perhaps, you’ll find he’s more of a romeo than you could’ve ever imagined.

not to mention, most “good guys” are already taken by abnormally stunning women.

hope this helped!

because guys usually have only one thing on there mind and we all know what that is. not all guys are like that but most are. dont worry a good guy will come around for you (:
just remember there is someone out there fr everyone !

punctuation is your friend!

It’s not hard to find a good guy, it’s just hard to trust our instincts. Sometimes, we have that inner voice telling us “no, not this one.” We go for that one, though. Take your time, don’t rush into things.

I’m guessing from your sentence, you are pretty young – believe me, there is plenty of time for guys.

I’d say forget guys

I think you’re fundamentally asking a couple really tough questions: why is it so hard to find someone you can really connect to? Why are people sometimes so awful to each other? Why do our feelings sometimes override our better judgment?

And I don’t think any of us have good answers to those. So I’m not sure scoffing at this question is really warranted.

I think we all make terrible decisions sometimes, and we end up hurting each other. I’m sorry this guy hurt you. These situations tend to make good lessons, though—try to take away something helpful from it—learn something useful about yourself, about people, about relationships. Good luck.

(Proof reading and using sentences are also your friends.) I get your point but am out of breath just reading part of that. Nikipedia makes valid points.

It’s not hard. You just have to keep looking.
I spent 3 years with someone who just was not right for me. And yet, the guy I’m with now, is amazing.

A guy will treat you how you allow yourself to be treated. Have higher expectations and don’t waste your time with losers.

It’s simple. Supply and demand.

It’s just as hard the other way around. Just don’t worry about it and enjoy life. The good times will come.

Im reallie a good guy, and Im not so hard to find

Tennesseejac if your a good guy then what kind of qualities do you have that make you that way

He has a nice, subtle sense of humor, for starters.

O well those are the things most of all the guys should have and maybe they wouldn’t have trouble with us the same way we do with them

@rockstar4411 Maybe you’re looking in all the wrong places. Don’t go looking for a guy, let him find you.

@gailcalled thank you…

Im an old fashion guy who still opens doors for ladies and puts their needs before mine (usually). Sometimes Im a bit too sensitive and like to think of myself as a lover not a fighter. I have a big heart and a big appetite for fun. I love to cook and dont mind cleaning. There is not much I wont do to get a smile or a laugh. I could go on and on, but I feel like Im boasting… which I like to think of myself as a humble guy who appreciates everything that I am fortunate enough to have

well hey you seem like a pretty nice guy to me tennesseejac

@rockstar4411 thanks, I havent had any complaints so far

@tennesseejac Yeah I agree,....you seem like a nice guy, I checked out your myspace. (Im stalking you…jk:) )

It’s only hard for certain girls. I found hundreds of good guys and I still have a whole lot of them.

I know some great guys. They aren’t that hard to find. It’s like the old saying. “If you want a friend, be a friend.” Seriously, if you want a great guy, be a great gal. As others have said above, you have plenty of time.

hmm, nobody is ever satisfied, someone always cheats

But if you are going to cheat on someone why not just breakup before so that other person doesn’t really get hurt, in the relationship.

@kevinhardy doubtful.