Is it bad for "future girlfriends," to stay friends with an ex?
We only dated for a few weeks, decided it was a better idea to be friends. We didn’t really have a lot of chemistry. We still text and hang out with mutual friends sometimes. Is this a bad idea or should I not worry about it? Or just not even mention it?
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Nah… if the person was cool enough to date temporarily, then they’re cool enough to maintain a friendship. But if you only dated for a few weeks, is it really an ex?? I mean, could it have been that serious?
I don’t see why it would be an issue.
If you’re still comfortable hanging out, I don’t see what the problem is… You don’t have to dislike an ex, especially if the relationship ended amicably.
ditto with what has been said.
yeah. I’m cool with most if not all of my ex’s. It’s fine.
If a future girlfriend has a problem with this, it will be her problem. You should be friends with whomever you like.
Is it bad? Only if the perception you give off is: Hey I keep my ex around for a booty call!
Otherwise, it should be fine.
Hey Spatz! Long time, no see.
Awesome, guess I worry too much. :)
Hello augustlan
Yep z28proximo, it’s all good!
A few weeks? That’s just dating, she’s not really an ex. You’re kosher for friendship! :D
stop texting her, and don’t mention it
This is no big deal really. I think it is a healthy thing as long as you are both definitely in the friend place.
I never stay friends with exes, but I wouldn’t count a few weeks worth of dating as a real relationship. I think if it’s less than three months, friendship is still fine.
i would just stay friends. Why would you care? you guys dont’ have much chemistry anyway. i wouldn’t count that as an ex.Hope you find the one someday
I would still stay friends…...because im still friends with my ex ^_^
It is not a friendship. It is you both trying to hang on to the possibility of something there was not.
I feel like if you’re feeling the need to ask this question, you’re probably thinking you’re doing something wrong.
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