Does your significant make noises that annoy you?

my moms boyfriend snores, moans, and groans in his sleep and it gets on my nerves and I cant sleep.

I was once bedfellow to a guy who would, when he thought I was in deep, deep sleep, stroke my arm, kiss my neck, play with my hair, etc., all of which was uninvited. Not a noise, but it was definitely annoying.

I was once told that I snore by someone I spent the night with ONCE, but my roommate, exboyfriend, and best friends (who have slept in my bed with me) all said that I don’t, so I’m going to believe them.

@TitsMcGhee oh my GOD thats like sexual harrasement.

Snoring is the only one. If it gets too bad, I usually just end up in my daughters bed. I’m a very light sleeper. It sucks!

@TitsMcGhee Was this bed fellow a romantic partner, or a dude you shared a bed with for whatever other reason?

I like when my usual bed fellow touches me like that when he thinks I’m asleep. But then again, he’s my boyfriend.

I used to occasionally share a bed with a heavy smoker. Not only would he cough, wheeze, and snore really loudly in his sleep, but he’d wake up in the middle of the night to smoke. Arrrgggghhhh.

@Likeradar I’ve heard of waking up to eat, but waking up to smoke? You poor thing. Actually he is, you got rid of him! :P

@jonsblond Ugh, it was so disgusting. I’m a smoker, but he was a smoker… it would be multiple times a night, and the stink was so bad I’d wake up every time. Ick.

I have to constantly (but gently) ask him to close his mouth when he chews gum.

@Likeradar and @LouisianaGirl: It happened twice (actually with guys with the same name…) The first time, I was only in this guy’s bed because I was too tired to drive home, and I didn’t want to sleep on the couch because I had previously been accosted by his housemate who, drunk and naked, begged me to have sex with him. My friend, the guy’s cousin, told me that he slept with a lot of girls but didn’t get a lot of affection, and he missed his girlfriend (whom he constantly cheated on). It was still totally uncalled for. The second was someone with whom I’d had a one night stand, and he came to visit, looking for it to happen again, but I wasn’t down, so I just went to sleep. I woke up the next morning to him spooning me and stroking my arm and whatnot… Ugh.

@TitsMcGhee wow, I’m not sure how you could put up with that for even a moment. I’d be up and on the couch in an instant… unless of course the roles were reversed and it was an attractive woman kissing up on me and caressing my arm.

@RandomMrdan: It’s for sure strange and disconcerting to wake up to, as well as awkward to address. I mean, at least they weren’t trying to put it in my butt or anything, so I guess it could be worse…

ugh, i cannot stand to be touched in my sleep. i don’t even know what i would do in that situation.

I would be fine with it if was someone I wanted touching me…

unfortunately only the fake noises

I’ll be honest – I am definitely the one in our relationship who does the annoying sleep sounds. I lightly snore when I’m really tired, I make little noises like “uhn” every minute or so for the first bit of falling asleep, and according to my fiance and previous roommates, I sometimes talk in my sleep and get very angry – muttering incoherently about my mother? I don’t know.. At least my fiance thinks the first two are cute, it’s only the last one that bothers him.

I have to say that he doesn’t really have any noises that bother me – just his “Ya know what I mean?” tag question after everything he says when he thinks I’m not listening (and it is usually on a topic of which I know nothing about – so no, I do not know what he means).

Well a little honesty from me here… I found that little sounds, noises and inflections that I used to find ‘adorable’ in my husband were really getting on my nerves… I mean totally driving me nuts! So I started becoming the proverbial nag-hag. Until someone mentioned in a really nice way how they ‘saw’ what was happening. I took a long hard look at myself… and you know what? Those sounds, noises and inflections ceased to be a bother… AND our relationship improved a thousand fold.

My wife said I snored (but I never heard myself snore). She said I held my breath and she’d get anxious waiting for me to start breathing again (I like holding my breath sometimes).

So she made me get a sleep study, and they gave me a machine that blows air up my nose all night long, keeping my soft tissues from relaxing, and thus preventing snoring. The machine, itself, makes a lot of noise, but it’s like white noise.

She says I don’t snore any more, and she’s getting a good sleep. It’s been three weeks,and I have yet to get a decent nights sleep. Of course, I wasn’t getting them before, either. At least one of us is happy.

when babies and children cry and whine, i cant stand it