Guys, do you recognize booty call text messages/calls?

I havent gotten any

I have run the spectrum on this. Sometimes I realized it as it was happening. Sometimes I figured it out after I hung up, sometimes weeks or months later. I feel like it’s almost random whether I figure it out or not.

Did you booty call someone and they didn’t realize it?

When I get a phone call from particular women at lets say….2:00am right as bars are letting out, I can likely assume it’s a booty call before I even answer it.

So, I realize it before I even answer the phone, I make an assumption based on the time and day of the week.

I never realize it waay after, or even after I hang up….I’ll know almost instantly, because the booty caller will make her intentions clear pretty fast.

Nobody who actually knows me would bother with a booty call because they know it would be a call that went unanswered. xD

I think I received one tonight. I didn’t really realize until my acquaintance/friend called and asked if she could come over. After awhile, we had a good straight conversation about the sexual tension in the air, and I told her I had chosen not to act on it. It felt a lot better after that, and we had a fine evening (with no booties being called).

You should have added “textual advances” to your tags.

Blows my mind that this kind of thing actually happens. If it happened when I was young, I either never received one, or no one ever did it. No one I knew spoke of it. It’s not something that happens to guys who are in established relationships, or who are married. Right?

Does anyone know when this started happening?

I received a few years ago, but I was Married at the time. so I ignored them.

you mean like “I need my space” or “I’m not looking for a relationship right now” or “let’s be friends”? Yes, I think those are pretty obvious.

My problem is booty calls that go something like “I love you, please give me a second chance. Let’s meet tonight and I’ll make it up to you” and then the girl doesn’t show up. I don’t know why, those ones seem to confuse me somehow.

Maybe I’m reading the signs wrong but are you coming onto us?