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Have you ever experienced unconditional love?

Asked by MCBeat (164points) March 9th, 2009

Has someone ever had the desire to stay with you eve if you lost all of your limbs, became a human vegetable, and constantly drooled and had little to no brain activity? Are you still with this person? And no, I’m not talking about your mother.

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nebule's avatar

My son… but he’s only two…I bet he won’t feel that way when he’s 18! :-(

I’m still searching for my own unconditional self-love…

rooeytoo's avatar

I think my dogs would probably stick with me, at least until they got too hungry!

wundayatta's avatar

I don’t understand why my wife wants to stay with me, given the shit I’ve put her through. I think she loves me pretty much unconditionally. She’d stay with me if I got sick. The only way she wouldn’t stay with me is if I started hurting her, and never stopped.

TitsMcGhee's avatar

I would’ve stayed with my ex through anything, and, for a time, I think he felt the same way. Not sure what changed, though.

gailcalled's avatar

Milo here: Gail is not yet at the drooling or vegetative stage, but I’m pretty sure that I would stand by her.

hearkat's avatar

I have fierce unconditional love for my son (it’s sad that not all mothers – including my own – feel that way).

I thought I had it for the men with whom I had long-term relationships. However, in retrospect, I realize that while I did feel love and I would have stayed with them through thick and thin, my immature and needy self was not truly capable of pure unconditional love.

My most recent attempt at a serious relationship surprised me in how I conducted myself as compared to those earlier relationships. I was able to feel the hurt and frustration of things that happened without it destroying me; I came through it sad, yet stronger, and with my dignity intact. I now KNOW that I am capable of the real thing. And one day, I will find someone who is able to appreciate all that I am (and am not) and will reciprocate unconditionally.

Lothloriengaladriel's avatar

Probably so. I felt that way about my ex, I still do, We don’t talk now, He’s dating someone else but I would still do anything for him, I do believe I love him unconditionally because he’s hurt me more then I think the normal person would forgive, Maybe one day He’ll come back, Who knows but my feelings for him won’t change with or without limbs.. =/

casheroo's avatar

My husband says he has unconditional love for me. In the vegetable state, he’d be sad but why wouldn’t he still love me?
But, I don’t think you can call love between two people unconditional. We all have conditions.
If my husband began beating me, or emotionally abusing me..I would leave him.
I have unconditional love for my son. I wonder how I’d feel if he murdered or raped someone though. I cannot fathom the way I would even react to that, but I can’t imagine ever not loving him…but I can lose respect for him.

MacBean's avatar

Never. And I don’t believe in it.

gailcalled's avatar

@MacBean; You’re not so far away. I could FedEx Milo to you for a visit, speaking of unconditional love. (Or I could meet you at the Rip Van Winkle bridge.)

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