Do guys like girls who come on to them?
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March 12th, 2009
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Everyone is different, not all men like straight forward women. It’s a preference.
Totally misread this as: Do guys like girls who come on them?
Was confused.
Short run… yes… long haul… no…
and wouldn’t you know it? i was to late to get a wink out of @Allie… Maybe next time!
Yes. Well, it doesn’t necessarily make me like them, and it depends on who they are and how they do it, but in general, yes it’s a good thing.
I’m just going to throw a ‘yes’ out there without any fancy explanation. If a woman comes on to me, I’m pretty certain that I’m not going to be disappointed.
@augustlan. We know where your mind is at. =)
Does any one social phenomenan hold true for all peoples?
I would say yes, I am not a guy so I can’t say for sure. But I know I like girls who are forward without seeming desperate. :)
I think the attraction is mostly in the confidence associated with the ability to come onto someone without being awkward or embarrassed and, like @DesireeCassandra has said, doesn’t seem desperate. What it boils down to is that the act of making a move on a guy isn’t necessarily the enticing part, instead, it is the attitude and confidence that come with it that is attractive.
YES!
It’s nice for a change.
Yes is the simple answer… To put the long answer short they like it but you need to not be desparate and some times the “move” is just flirting… Just see how he reacts to hinting to the idea of somenactjon the ends with you guys dating or going on a date. Then go from there.
Yes, EXCEPT if I think they come on to ALL men, ANY men.
This guy does.
In fact, I would rather welcome it right now!
Yes. As long as you are using real language instead of suttle hints that men never pick up on. Just say it, “I like you.”
Ha, @ShauneP82, that’s soooo true.
My personal experience says some guys just don’t get it.
@Dr_C I owe you a wink. ;-)
this is the sound of my heart set aflutter… :p
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