I had been on Askville for a little over a year, when someone mentioned fluther. While at Askville, I had had some serious adventures in mental health (or lack thereof), and I had used Askville as a kind of support group. However, it became very cliquey and I felt pretty much left out. I was convinced that if I left, no one would notice. Around the same time, my closest friends on Askville stopped being there.
I realized that Askville was no longer helping me. In fact, it was making me feel worse. I understood that as long as I stayed there, I was going to remain depressed. So, when I became aware of fluther, I came over here, and quickly I decided this was my home, and I dropped Askville completely.
I’ve been much healthier on fluther, and felt more a part of things. When I saw questions appear that could lead towards the formation of cliques or hierarchies, I urged caution, for I knew where that lead. Somehow, it hasn’t happened, and fluther has remained a kind of egalitarian place where everyone seems to care about everyone else.
Recently, I discovered that people also appreciated my presence here, and while that didn’t fit my image of myself, it was very nice, and made me feel better about myself. So, for me, fluther is healthy; much healthier than where I was before. I’m glad to be here.