@mattbrowne Thanks. As a kid, I never really had a problem with bullies. Sure, I was in all the gifted programs, but on the playground, I treated them with the same respect and dignity with which I treated my smart friends, so they didn’t feel threatened. There was one bully that got to me, though. (I cannot remember what his problem was) One day, I reached out with an open-hand slap in front of all his friends. Never another problem.
I was never seen as a geek in high school because I was friends with jocks, nerds, and regular popular kids. I remember purposefully dressing how the nerds did not. I toned down my vocabulary so as to be better understood by my friends. I avoided saying much of what was on my mind because many times, nobody understood what I was talking about. When I did tell a story, I usually included more information than needed because there was often so much background information needed to provide context for my actual point. Of course, once I got to the point, it was usually forgotten, anyway.
Now, I have fewer problems being myself. In fact, I’ve been told that I’ve offended people in the workplace because they thought that I was somehow talking down to them, though I cannot imagine myself ever doing that. I was just being me and trying to help them. I never want to make anyone feel out of place with me.
Also, I get enough satisfaction from coming up with creative solutions that are recognized by my peers as being “genius”. If somebody recognizes my ability on their own, I’m fine with accepting credit/praise. However, to actively seek out a label (even known only to me and my closest) just seems so…elitist. Lucky for me, I’m awkward enough to maintain my cover.
At the same time, it seems like MENSA is just trying to capitalize on people feeling the need for that label. They accept the top 2% of IQ’s, which sounds faily exclusive, but it’s still one in fifty. It the US alone, that gives them a potential base of 6 million people. Maybe if they changed to the top .5%, I’d be more interested in the challenge. ;-)