Counterquestion: Brains or Boobs:Women, what do you think men want more?
figured since someone asked what men think women want, I’ll do the same for women.
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GQ, Boobs. :)
I think for instant gratification, men want boobs.
For someone they’ll be spending any amount of real time with outside a bedroom/boiler room/whatever, they want a wonderful mix of both.
all men aren’t alike, so i can’t answer this. but i know what MY man wants, and that’s all that means anything to me.
I’d have to say brains AND beauty…not every guy is a “boob” guy, right?
Speaking from my personal preferences, ladies, if you can’t have an intelligent conversation, you’re in trouble.
lol contrary to my SN, I’m not much of a boob guy.
Do men want you or something??
A lot of guys say sense of humor, but i’m definitely gonna have to go with breast size.
wait – i have to talk to her too? dammit
ok, brains. well, yea…brains. maybe some ass too! :)
I’ve found that most guys have been interested in my boobs and not much else, and that the keepers are the ones who can see beyond the cup size.
I gay guy did hit on me at work last week, but that wasn’t the drive for this thread
I suppose I should be flattered that he thought I was attractive… but that just seems like a backhanded complement to me lol… well, someone out there thinks I’m hott… but they have a wiener…
Boy Take…
I’ve actually always preferred “smaller” boobs too larger ones (they seem to just get in the way to be honest, and they sag over time, no good)..... But since I’m guessing overall you mean looks vs personality…. It’s gotta be a good combo. The physical attraction draws you in first, and physical attraction is a huge part of a good relationship. But at the same time she can’t be an idiot and we can’t fight all the time.
I like an independent minded girl, who has her own life and things going on (we can’t be each others entire lives all the time), at least a “7” on my attractive scale, equal or greater intelligence is a plus but not a requirement, and then most importantly there just has to be that “click” between the two of us. Chemistry if you will….
Boobs. Most of my friends IRL are men and they initially gravitate towards the physical and then maintain interest if there’s personality to go with it.
Im a guy and I like smaller breasts. So I guess that means I care more about brains. I mean, I’m fine with large boobs, but if they look like giant watermelons strapped to your chest (esp. if they are fake), no thanks.
Fixed for tits. Don’t want to offend the naturally well endowed.
Brains. Boobs can only get you so far…yeah, men might want to screw a hot chick, but if she’s annoying and they have nothing in common with her, I doubt they’d stay.
@eambos: I can only hope that you mean overly and disproportionately large, because some of us just can’t help it.
boobs with brains, that’s the ticket!
I’ve known blondes gifted in both categories. :D
or, should i have written, brains with boobs? i get so confused!
The ones worth my time want brains. The ones not worth my time want boobs. Luckily, I have found one worth my time ;)
have you ever tried to motorboat on a brain? it doesnt do it for me…
@essieness I prefer them to appreciate both now, but realize one part will fade, and hopefully the other part will keep getting better.
More than a handful is a waste.
Well like I just said in another thread, men are wired from their genitals to their head in that order. Women are wired the opposite. So a nice set of breasts are nice but it may be a while until he gets upstairs…at which point he’ll head downstairs again…maybe even visit the back porch. ;)~
I think ladies are just more evolved but be realistic.
Two guys- attractive, confident, intelligent and rich. One guy has a bigger schlong. All things being equal,who are you going to choose of course? But if one is dumb and ugly with a big schlong you might choose the other guy.
Likewise for a guy if the girl has a double DD and is a bitch and there’s a sweet petite girl with an A cup I’m going for the cutie with the nice attitude.
@SeventhSense: We’ll I’m a double DD plus one AND I’m sweet, so there you go.
“Two guys- attractive, confident, intelligent and rich. One guy has a bigger schlong. All things being equal,who are you going to choose of course?”
How much bigger? Because if my thumb and forefinger can’t meet around it, or it’s longer than about six and a half inches, I’m going for the smaller one, thanks.
@TitsMcGhee
Did you say something? I wasn’t watching your mouth.@@ :)
You had me at TitsMcghee (typing with one hand)
@MacBean
I guess it’s not a perfect analogy. I guess it all depends upon your body type too. Maybe better would be a choice between a guy who was really small and one who was average and equal in the other departments as mentioned.
I think men are about the breasts first and are amused or intrigued if brains are also on board.
@SeventhSense Wasn’t your avatar… something not terrifying? ... just a couple of hours ago?
The boobs will get them interested, the brain will keep them.
I think men are most interested in what comes out of a woman’s mouth (or what she’ll put into it). ;)
@MacBean My husband’s rendition of that saying is anything over a mouthful is wasted. After all these years, guess I have brains AND boobs worth sticking around for. I’ve never had any complaints from either area.
As Leslie Winkle said in The Big Bang Theory, “Come for the breasts, stay for the brains.”
nothing wrong with wanting boobs, but I wouldn’t want a man than didn’t want brains just as much.
Boobs are for nursing children. Give me a pretty face in front of a prettier brain any day.
jonsblond’s face and brain, of course.
her ass is hot too
How cute is it that Blondesjon and jonsblond always have avatars of famous couples? You guys make me want to get married someday.
@KatawaGrey like burt and loni, donald and ivana, sigfried and roy….
@eponymoushipster…I will tolerate a lot of shit, but I will not have Sigfried and Roy belittled in my presence.
great idea though. i’ve been trying to talk her into peppermint patty and marcy
@eponymoushipster We’re taking suggestions for a new couple for our avatars to celebrate our anniversary this weekend. Maybe someone with boobs and brains? (trying to stay on topic)
@jonsblond howsabout prince charles and camilla parker bowles? or michael jackson and bubbles?
a whole lotta boobs to go around oh look, the topic!
@eponymoushipster I thought about that one minus Baxter. Tits is already taken. :(
Pam Anderson and Tommy Lee? There’s three boobs for ya.
I’ve got a killer rack, not bragging, just saying. Anyway, I’ve found that said killer rack usually attracts the type of guy that doesn’t really care about the brains. It’s the guys that appreciate the brains and think of the boobs as a crazy awesome super plus that one should look for.
Momma’s got a squeeze box, daddy doesn’t sleep at night.
I wonder if guys with brains are too intimidated by a killer rack to come close enough to find out if there is a brain included. Hell, even guys without that much between their ears might be intimidated. I know for sure that I was.
@daloon Blondesjon wasn’t intimidated. ;)
Damn! If only the internet had been around when I was looking!
@daloon: I hope that theory is right. Maybe I should just start doing the approaching.
@TitsMcGhee: well, let me know how it goes. I hope I’m not the only one like that. @Blondesjon, if we are to believe @jonsblond, is all man, despite the big brain. I’m glad one of us is.
the real question is, do guys think you’re more stupid because/if you have big boobs?
I let people (that includes women) prove themselves. I don’t hold any unusual anatomical factors against them. Although, if the data are to be believed, prettier women are smarted; so, to the extent that boobs make a woman more attractive, they also suggest that she is likely to be smarter. Which just seems so unfair to me.
Yeah, yeah. Who said life was fair?
@daloon sounds like life’s fair for me!
I am a dude. Really, it depends on the day. Their are some days I can’t think about anything else but breasts. Then there are other days where engaging a lady in deep thought is a real turn on. But if I had to choose which I have more days of…definately the boobs. Sorry ladies. Instinct has a way with men.
Well, in an existentialist view, if there was a boob in one hand and a brain in the other, which one would you rather squeeze?
If there is a brain in one hand and a boob in the other, which one would you rather talk to?
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