What does "using a penis well" mean?
I just saw it again, but I’ve seen women say it a lot, when asked about the importance of size. They say they don’t care (mostly), but want the guy to use it well.
I’m never sure how to take this. Are they referring to physical moves, positions, etc; or is it about more general love-making talents—with other parts of the anatomy, but most importantly, with the sense of desire and love and tension that they can create with words, looks, and hints.
So, ladies, when you think a guy is using his penis well, is it because of what he does physically, and if so, could you describe in enough detail so I can understand, what it is that good cocksmen do? And if it’s what he does in a kind of extra-tactile way, then what does that look and feel like?
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Size doesn’t matter is a rumor perpetuated by men with small penises and sympathetic women
I’d say overall talents…........:)
@TaoSan What sympathetic women? Didn’t know there were any. LOL
Keeping one’s Giggle Stick Giggling?
I have been told by various women that at a certain point, if you’re too small OR too big, size will matter. Just what I’ve heard, I’m not a girl so I dunno….
I think that a man’s most important sex organ is his brain. It isn’t about the size of his penis or the way he uses it. It is all about how he loves me.
It’s the general experience, not how the tool itself is wielded – I mean, unless it’s prehensile, there isn’t a whole lot you do with just the penis besides the thrusting part. And, of course, as I was writing this, SuperMouse says it better than I ever could.
daloon, I love your questions, haha. I missed the point that you got back to using your daloon account rather than daloonagain.
Anyway, it is a general comment that means showing the girl a good time, which is inclusive of creative positions as well as talent in thrust.
More specifically, “using” himself to actively hit the girl’s spot and cause her to orgasm during intercourse, which is not always an easy task and not always easier for those with larger genitalia.
my experience – make sure your lady comes first by whatever means, and what ever happens after will work out just fine…and, yes, the brain is the biggest erotic organ man or woman possesses.
@daloon- “cocksmen” hee hee. :)
I don’t think there’s one answer for every girl… some like to be dominated, some like to dominate, some like it hard and fast, some don’t, blah, blah, blah. It’s cliched, but communication and willingness to please (but not puppy-dog willingness, imho) are what matter the most. That’s practicing “good dickmanship.”
“what it is that good cocksmen do?” automatic GQ
It should read: Using a pen is good. A lot of people misuse well for good.
I prefer the term “CockSmith”
A penis well is like an ink well, right?
Only if you write your letters with…you freaky simian.
@galileogirl , I’ve written my name in the snow with it, Does that count?
It’s a good thing your name isn’t William Shakespeare. You’d probably run out of…ink.
Every girl is different, that’s for sure. So, it also has to do with being in tune and communicating enough to figure out what she likes and using it to please her!
Using it well means maintaining an erection throughout my earth shuddering orgasms and paying mind not suddenly change.. um… thrust rhythm or position just as I’m getting there. Not all men can get another erection within a short time of coming so I like to go first or at the same time.
Getting it up and keeping it up! :D
Hmm this is a good question. I guess a good example is it’s not the size of the boat that matters, it’s the motion in the ocean. Some guys have huge battleships and some have little tugboats. Honestly, a tugboat is all you really need. Good dick isn’t always big. When a guy has a decent stroke, that’s what I call good dick. Now there’s different strokes for different folks, some women like it slow, fast, soft, hard, rough & dry, and/or smooth & wet. I think that factors like pleasing a woman in other ways (fourplay, getting a woman aroused, oral sex, etc) are different catergories that as a whole make a man a good lover but for me, good dick is specifically about the stroke just like good head is specifically about your talent in performing oral sex.
motion of the ocean goes a long way
@VzzBzz: Is earth shuddering making the earth shudder? Isn’t that a negative??? I think you meant earth shattering :P
Using a penis well, to me, means the rhythm, position and power of the thrust. The other things, both foreplay techniques and emotional content are within different categories of what makes a guy a good person to have sex with. Bigger isn’t always better if he’s jack rabbit thrusting and not going very deep.
@TitsMcGhee: agree with you, don’t remember mentioning size though. Earth shattering? Hmmn, haven’t fallen through yet… I’ll keep trying.
@VzzBzz: The second half of the quip addressed the original question, sorry.
Personally, I think it has to do with being able to aim the darn thing in the bathroom. I hate having to mop the floor or sitting on a wet seat.
Humph!
I agree with Darwin, great answer!
I can’t really define it, but I know it when I feel it. ;)
Dude, if you don’t know, i’m not going to tell you.
It’s all in the hips. Ask her what she wants specifically, and tell your hips to do that.
This is easy and obvious I think. Using it well means a few key things. Lets face it, this ain’t rocket science. 1) Get it up. 2) Keep it up. 3) Don’t bust too fast.
Of course there is one more key aspect and thats technique, but in reality, as long as you are NOT some awkward gimp thrusting in all various directions with no regard whatsoever to the task at hand, then you should be alright.
I just had prostate surgery. I’m happy to be using it at all.
Dropping your bucket in the well and seeing how many penises you get?
It’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion of the ocean, but you can’t get to Asia in a dinghy.
Well, if you give a woman enough love and understanding, she’ll probably take it if she loves you…and you treat her right, meaning you try really hard to make her orgasm!
That said, size doesn’t matter too much unless it is only one or two inches, in which case I feel sorry for you.
I have found after plenty of pillow talk and snuggling nearly any penis is used well.
It is all about the skills. Motion of the ocean, quality and such.
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