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Do Guys not like quiet shy girls?

Asked by cocobaby13 (5points) March 30th, 2009

I like this guy in school but every time I look at him he looks at me (of what I can see) but when he walks towards me he just passes me and goes talk to his friends! I’ve thought about giving him a letter that told him my feelings, but my friends say it’s just to elementary schoolish! And when ever i’m in groups with him I’m very quiet and shy!! And one day, I saw him hanging over this one popular girl with in love eyes, but back in middle school he asked me out and I said “no”. Now hes gone threw two girlfriends!!!Is there something wrong with how I look or how I act? (i’ve never ever had a boyfriend before!!!)

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ABoyNamedBoobs03's avatar

I go bonkers for shy girls. no idea why.

emilia_eclaire's avatar

Oh, sweet little cocoababy. Don’t send a letter. Wait for an excuse to talk to him. Or wait till you catch him alone, and just say “Hi”. If he’s harboring lusty thoughts like you are, it’ll get him thinking. I know it’s hard, I was plagued by similar crushes all throughout high school. Sometimes I took action and sometimes I just admired from afar. Ultimately being a coy little bookish type is way better than being a trashy teenage ho-bag.

TheIowaCynic's avatar

that’s an adorable story. Guys like shy girls, just fine. As you get older, they’ll come to you. My advice would be, don’t invest too much in this one particular fella. There are lots of fish in the sea

Raean's avatar

Guys like shy girls. Absolutely. Just like girls like different kinds of guys. Guys don’t all like one “style” of girl. Have confidence in yourself and who you are. Next time you are around him in a group, start a conversation. The fact that you can hold a conversation and that you are interesting is far more important than being Ms. Outgoing. I know a ton of people whose relationship started out as friends. After all, you are a unique individual with talents and opinions that are solely yours. If he can’t appreciate exactly who you are then he isn’t worth your time.

Ivan's avatar

I wouldn’t generalize the characteristics of over 3 billion people by examining the actions of one.

Garebo's avatar

Please release me, set me free, can be absolutely wonderful.

eponymoushipster's avatar

i love girls like that.

Amoebic's avatar

Plenty do! It’s even cuter when they’re shy, too.

flameboi's avatar

nothing like a shy girl :)

Triiiple's avatar

Guys like shy girls but jsut have no idea what you mean.

I think the worst thing is when im into a girl but she just doesnt talk to me or anything then im just like “aw well i fucked that up somehow she wont talk to me” and just dismiss it.

Get up in his face and start some convo, maybe find a common thing you guys like and spark something up with that.

kevinhardy's avatar

shy girls are kool, intersting convserations

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