I kissed a guy on saturday and haven't talked to him since, why hasn't he talked to me?

Were you eating Doritos beforehand?

uhh no, I had just brushed my teeth so my breath was fine

Guys can be a bit slow, and often have a different concept of time.

Maybe he suddenly got scared. Maybe he wasn’t ready for things to change between you and he doesn’t know what to do next. A little kiss can make a big difference.

Have you called him? Maybe he’s sitting on the other end wondering “why has’t she called and, omg…maybe she doesnt like how I kissed…”

This is another one of those “we could come up with a million reasons, but none of us are mind readers,” so you’re going to have to find out for yourself ; )

(good luck!)

Maybe, he doesn’t want you to think that he’s really into you. That way his pride doesn’t get hurt, in the event you dis him. He can just play it as no big deal-I am betting he’s interested and will call within a week, at most two weeks. Unless, you really do have chronic halitosis.

Was this the same guy that you liked and he would come over and hang out for hours?

Or am I thinking of someone else?

If not then good job. Way to take the lead. I bet he is just scared. Probably not sure how to label the relationship you guys have now.

Maybe he is either super busy or super embarrased! Have coffee with him and talk about what happened, you are adults, deal with this as adults :)

I’m thinking halitosis!

Call him and ask.

There is also a misconception amongst guys regarding the three day waiting rule. Supposedly, a guy is supposed to wait three days before he calls, as not to appear desperate or needy or some such thing. You can always call him first. Be casual, but upfront about what you’re thinking. If he’s into seeing where things go, and you are too, do it.

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That’s true. I probably wouldn’t call before Wednesday.

@SeventhSense: Silly guys! It’s that kind of mentality that has us womenfolk freaking the fuck out and asking these questions on fluther.

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A little anticipation makes you crazy though and then you jump our bones

@SeventhSense: Hmm… guilty as charged. Anticipation can build in less than four days though!

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Ok maybe Tuesday for you

@SeventhSense: Well thanks! I can only hold back for so long, ya know.

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Well, you keep jumping up and down.

I’m going to bed. I’ll talk to you tomorrow..or Wednesday

@SeventhSense: Psst, tomorrow IS Wednesday!

Why haven’t you spoken to him either? :)

Maybe he’s one of those who’s waiting for you to make the first move.

Ok he came over last night, but my roomates were around, he stayed until after they went to bed but before I could bring up the kiss he said he should probably get to bed (it was 1 am)
He was flirtacious most of the night and his body language was good and he found excuses to touch me several times, all good signs…I give up. I am just going to be upfront with him because apparently he can’t do it himself.