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Does a man not have girlish emotions/feelings at all?

Asked by crossword (14points) April 2nd, 2009

Can we actually say that men dont have emotions when it comes to sex..

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Zen's avatar

This is where the expression cocksure comes from.

wundayatta's avatar

You mean there’s somewhere else you can think from???

crossword's avatar

lol..thats a good one ..but can u have bad feelings with a person and next moment get hot on bed !

ubersiren's avatar

99%. The other 1% is dependent on most recent intake of food and beverage.

crossword's avatar

i feel i waking up to the world of reality out of my slumber !!

poofandmook's avatar

My boyfriend cares more about emotion during sex than I do.

aviona's avatar

My exboyfriend definitelyyyy did (I’ll spare you to details). So you can’t really call them “girlish” emotions because that’s just society telling you that only girls experience them and even if men do experience them then they are well, in the eyes of the governator “girly men,” which is total BS.

dynamicduo's avatar

Just as with everything in life, there will be some men who exhibit this characteristic and some men who do not. In my experience, most men do not exhibit nor embrace their emotions as much as women do (or are forced to do, in my case – I’d love to turn these emotions off at times but there’s no switch!).

Regarding sex: this is the one time where my current man’s emotions or feelings come out swinging. My partner is more willing to express his feelings when we are being intimate.

Facade's avatar

Of course men have emotions. Everyone does. They may choose not to portray them, but they’re there.

jo_with_no_space's avatar

No, we can’t say that at all. Are men not subject to the same emotional urges as women? Of course they are, we are all of the same species. I really don’t subscribe to this “from Mars/from Venus” ideology where men and women are seen as irredeemably and radically different and foreign to each other. Women and men have simply been brought up differently on the whole, with boys generally being told that it’s expected that they should not cry, be emotionally expressive, etc. And that’s the limit of the differences, in my opinion. The same feelings, or the potentiality for them to exist, are inborn into both genders.

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