@daloon – yes, I remember this from another site.
Like @The_unconservative_one, I think you make some broad leaps when you turn this into a “Could you befriend a robber” issue. In fact, I find that leap quite silly. My opinion is based on political, religious and I believe I threw in parenting, as well. Not once, did I include things like robbery, fraud or the examples that @The_unconservative_one threw in, did I? I didn’t make those leaps. My opinion is very clear. I can befriend people that don’t agree with my politics, just like they can befriend me. Damn us for doing so.
Before, when you and I went rounds on this – and it wasn’t just you and I, you likened Republicans to criminals. just so that everyone is clear, I’m not a republican. My stance is pretty damn clear – I don’t have a problem being friends with someone that holds different political beliefs. NOW, if the person is just an ass, why in the world would I be friends with someone like that? Just to clear that point up before someone jumps in with an example like @The_unconservative_one threw in – the racist friend, comment. I’m okay with someone having different political beliefs, I don’t think they are evil or immoral. Some of the republicans I know aren’t rich, they are working middle class, at best – so I can’t say they are money grubbing. I find it ridiculous to assume that all Republicans are evil. There are some that don’t agree with everything – maybe that agree with half of what the Republican party stands for – maybe more. But to group all people together and say they are evil is ridiculous to me. It’s just not something I understand.
I don’t agree with all of my friend’s opinions or decisions, but who the hell put me in charge or them? No one. It’s not my job to judge them for their political beliefs. It’s my job to understand if we have enough in common to truly have a friendship, just like they do with me. And guess what – I can be friends with someone that doesn’t hold the same political belief system. Also, just because someone can befriend other people of different political views, doesn’t mean we take politics or other issues any less serious than you do.
I can have this conversation with friends or other people – ones that might not even be my friends. You are misunderstanding that point.
If I eliminated everyone in my life that has an opposite political belief than me, I would have never talked to my dad or married my husband. I wouldn’t have one of my friends that I’ve known since 2nd grade. My dad, he was a damn fine man. Gave back more than he ever asked for. Would have given a stranger the shirt off his back, if they needed it. My husband – he’s the same way. He’s not evil. He’s not money hungry. He’s a good person. My friend – she’s pretty damn amazing, too. Runs a charity, does not draw a salary – at all, unlike other staff members.
My belief is simple. I believe we grow when we have friends from all walks of life. Republican, Dem, Green Party, No Party. Religious, non-religious. Children, no children. I enjoy being around people that like to share their beliefs, but they do not force them on other people. I enjoy people that respect the differences, but do not judge each other based on those differences. Simple. My opinion – that’s all.