Theres a guy who likes me and my sister in the beginning and now likes me(were twins)help!

Stick with family always. Boys come and go.

You might have solved the boring boy issue when you told you sister something he asked you not to repeat.

Is your sister wanting to tell him that you are not interested or confront him about what he said? If it’s about you not being interested, it is your place to tell him that bit of information. If it’s to confront him – well…there isn’t a lot that you can do about that, now.

I’m a twin, were the same person. I cant just see her around the house holding a grudge of her..

threesomes solve everything.

I just realized that I thought you said she would talk to him.

Why would she hold a grudge – does she like him? For that matter, why would you hold a grudge? the way you phrased that is a little off – I’m not sure if you would be the one to hold the grudge or if it’s her holding the grudge.

Here’s the dangerous territory in the situation. He flirted with you, your sister and your friends. You said it wasn’t awkward. However, now there is an issue – so it was awkward – or it is now. By flirting with both of you – he set one of you up for a fall. That’s not such a good thing, is it?

Oh, and I understand you are twins – they run in my family and I have 3 sets of twin friends. I have never heard them describe each other as being the same person. It is very important that you have some independence to develop your own personality, beliefs and also to prevent some of the boy problems. I understand there is a special bond, but to think of yourself as the same person – I would truly hope you would want to be seen as part of a twin set, but as an individual person.

What I mean to say is we are with eachother all the time.we never leave eachothers sides.I like to think of myself as independent. I guess the phrasing came out rong. Yea it skips a generation in my family lucky me.

I’m glad you see yourself in an independent way! :)

I’m not sure how old you are, but one of the twin sets I know, I’ve known since high school. When it came down to guys – they did have to start venturing out on their own. This helped with any competition and feelings were spared.

I thankyou, when I met this boy I met himnwith my sister.And what makes me,me is being with my sister she gives me my personality and how act.being without her with a boy who like both now one is just plain weird. I can’t picture myself with just him and non of my friends with me.basically I don’t like him but I like being with him and my sister and I like him as a friend.

I concur with WillBrawn about boys coming and going, and will add the following:

in the beginning i liked it because me and my friends would hang out with the boy that liked me and my sister, he would flirt with me and my sister and my friends so it wasn’t awkward.

If you are more comfortable with group dating, and it sounds like you’re not ready for solo dating, you should stick with that. Don’t date until you feel you are really ready to do so. That has nothing to do with being a twin, but with knowing yourself, and not letting yourself be talked into anything. Interest in dating is age specific, but being ready to date is up to the individual person. Lots of people don’t start dating until their late teens or college.