I’m a server in a restaurant, so here’s my input:
First of all, you should definitely tip according to the level of service you receive, but there are some things to consider when you’re thinking about leaving a small tip just to be cheap.
a) most of us only make $2.13/hour (yes, you read that right)
b) most of us pay out 3% of our sales back to the restaurant to pay the bussers and hostesses.
So, if you sat in my section and stiffed me on say, a $50 bill, I would actually have to pay $1.50 to have served you. Assuming that you sat in my section for an hour, which is typical, I would have made $0.63 that hour, if you were my only table.
Also, keep in mind that there are circumstances that are completely out of our control and your anger about said subjects should not be taken out on your server:
– How long you wait to be seated
– Whether or not your order was cooked correctly (if I ordered it wrong, my fault. if the cook effs it up, not my fault)
– Running out of items
– Items being removed from the menu
– Not being allowed to serve you alcohol if you don’t have an ID
We put up with a lot of shit. This past weekend marked the beginning of prom season, and anyone who has ever worked in a restaurant knows that this pretty much means that every Saturday night for a couple of months, you can count on not making much money. Prom kids are notorious for coming in in huge groups, ordering cheap food, sucking down drinks, behaving badly, and NOT TIPPING (we can no longer add gratuity because of a lawsuit, not in our company). Two of my coworkers made $30 and $40 respectively this past Saturday night ($80 to $120 is the norm) because they had table after table of prom kids who not only didn’t tip, but some actually left without paying their bills. That’s just unacceptable.
Prom rant over.
Finally, my rule of thumb is, if you can’t afford to leave a tip, don’t go out to eat. It’s that simple. This is how we make our money. Plan on tipping 20% and then if your service is horrible, lower it. If the service is outstanding, raise it. Don’t not tip just to not tip. Getting stiffed after bending over backwards to please your guests is very disheartening. Maybe that’s why we drink so much in the restaurant biz.