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Why do some guys think it's not cheating if they don't kiss you?

Asked by lrhar487 (82points) April 11th, 2009

This guy I was seeing had a girlfriend. Yes I know I shouldn’t have even been with him because of this but I was kind of hoping to get back together with him. Well anyways he was ok with having sex with me but didnt want to kiss. What’s the difference?

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russellsouza's avatar

Honey, I don’t know who those guys are but they’re very, very wrong. If they have sex with you and they’re already in a committed relationship it’s cheating. In fact, most people would say that even if they only kiss you and don’t have sex with you it’s still cheating.

asmonet's avatar

Because they’re assholes.

eponymoushipster's avatar

because some people are very good at fooling themselves.

SeventhSense's avatar

Because they’re delusional? And isn’t it usually only a hooker that won’t kiss you?

augustlan's avatar

It’s cheating, no matter how you look at it. That said, some people do believe that kissing is a more intimate act than straight fucking. Not more intimate than all sex, just that kind.

Jeruba's avatar

Forget about getting back together with a guy who doesn’t mind having sex with his ex while he’s in a relationship, whether he kisses or not. What’s he going to do if he’s in a relationship with you?

NaturalMineralWater's avatar

Because they have the iq of expired yogurt?

funky_princess's avatar

Yes course its still cheating, hookers never kiss their ‘clients’ as they feel its more intermate and yes sometimes it is.

casheroo's avatar

That’s ridiculous. It is cheating. Some men are fucking pigs.

funky_princess's avatar

@casheroo, totally agree with you!

Simone_De_Beauvoir's avatar

because they’ve seen ‘pretty woman’ too many times?

aviona's avatar

kissing = feelings.
just sex – kissing = fucking = no feelings.

it’s dumb logic, but I get it.

Horus515's avatar

I think you should be looking more at yourself for going along with that. What does it say that he wanted to F you without showing any emotion?

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