How does girl on top work?

Works great :D

why do I feel like this is a fishing-for-girls-talking-about-sex-positions type question?

Bounce up and down. Oh, don’t forget to stick it in there first.

Turn sideways on the bed and use the headboard as leverage (by holding on to it), or have him sit on a chair and put your feet on the rungs. Or, have him put his hands on your ass and help you lift it up and down. Recognize that it takes a little practice.

One of my old gf’s started crying out of frustration the first time or two we tried it (although she was old enough and experienced enough that one would think she would have known how). So I get where you’re coming from.

Also, girls seem to like rocking back and forth. Guys like more the up and down.

@poofandmook

Because it is. :)

@OP why don’t you search google or go onto a teenage sex advice site? They always talk about things like this.

@poofandmook You could very well be right. How could someone NOT know how to do this? It’s a no-brainer!

If it’s so hard, then it’s working well.

Sorry, couldn’t resist.

Not even how could they not know how… but why only ask the GIRLS for help? So far, a MAN has been the only one to give a real answer.

@poofandmook because I think we see how ridiculous this is.

@Dog I saw my chance and took it

Seriously though, I brace myself against the guy’s almost used the plural possessive there on accident, whoops! chest with my hands for support, legs on the sides, move around a bit. Voila!

Hey @poofandmook, I was planning on giving a real answer eventually! :)

@bezdomnaya “move around a bit” haha lurve!
Serious answer- have him sit up, pillow under his ass. It’s easier for beginners.

The problem you’re having is because this is really something you have to be SHOWN!. Come on over, I’ll show you!!!!! :)

Did you say “It’s so hard”???? Sounds like you got “Step 1” down pat!! (or should I say UP pat!?)

Now we know how the guys feel, eh? Actually having to put effort in, rather than just lying there and taking it ;)

Not me. I’d be willing to lie there and take it.

Practice makes perfect. Keep trying, it’s worth it.

Step 1: Man lie flat on bed
Step 2: Woman sit on top of man
Step 3: Think back real hard to the talk you heard about how babies are made
Step 4: If you still can’t figure out where to go from there, then you are not ready to have any sex at all.

Sincerely,
Fluther Girl

@punkrockworld: if you’re being even half-way serious that you’re struggling, then I should remind you to use lube (lubrication). Buy some in the pharmacy aisle. LOTS of people use it all the time (KY liquid brand works great). It probably will fix all of your problems.

If not, you’ll want to talk to your OB/GYN for advice on facilitating sexual intercourse.

If lube doesn’t work and you’re unwilling to talk to your OB/GYN because it’s too embarrassing, then follow Step 4 above.

The question you REALLY should ask is how does girl on side, duck in the middle, handcuffs from your ankle, guy upside down, and a feather duster in your butt work!

@Mr_M – Okay, but for that description I’m going to need a Barbie and a Ken doll to show you.

works best for both if you’re facing his toes rather than head.

Oh if you can SEE the head, you ARE doing it wrong!!

I told you, I really should show you. :)

This is also a good way to prevent unwanted pregnancy. I do it all the time. (this is a joke, next time this comes up with your friends say the same thing with a serious look on your face, good times)

@LKidKyle1985 In what universe does girl-on-top prevent pregnancy? Methinks you have just been lucky.

@LKidKyle1985 Your other option is to do it standing up. Gravity, you know, drags all the sperm down. Doing it in the water prevents pregnancy too—those little sperm just float away and get lost. ;)

lol exactly MissAusten, we really need to start teaching kids these practical techniques.

It doesn’t need to be hard. A lot of women get more pleasure from being on top, men do also because of the great view they are getting.
Get him to lie back. Get on top of him and rock back and forth, use your hips, it is more pleasurable and he might not slip out. I find this easier than trying to go up and down. It hits the clitoris more too.