What exactly constitutes "phone sex?"?

I think it’s talking to someone else about things that would get you intentionally turned on or encourage you to, uh… orgasm.

All of the people that say that sex has to involved penetration can suck it (not a sexual pun). I think phone sex can be anything involving two or more people, two or more phones, and whatever stimulates them sexually whether participating vocally or listening in while participating physically.

I have experienced the challenge of assisting a couple of ex-girlfriends while they mastrubated by walking them through a detailed description of the act of sex. While it may sound… ehh… It actually elevated the level of passion (desire) to the point where I was willing to do whatever it took to see (touch) them. What can be sexier than a power struggle?

When a woman (or man) and a phone love each other very much…

If you’re questioning it.. it is probably phone sex.

Without any personal knowledge, I suspect it is when two people talk about sexual activities to each other until they experience vicarious sexual gratification.

I was so worried this involved someone setting their cell phone ringer to vibrate…

A lot of times it just involves a narrative of sexual activities (touching, caressing, kissing, etc.) do together if they were actually physically together. Detailed descriptions can help :)

Remember, the greatest sex organ is the brain. If you are good with descriptions, you can tell a story—well, actually you create a collaborative story—that is more arousing than being together in person. If you add the sexiness of a husky voice over the phone, that deep in the throat voice that screams of desire….

Another of my all-time favorite moments came on the phone, from my office, of all places. This woman was amazingly adventuresome. We’d take turns setting a scene, and then playing it out, improvising as we went. Often times, since we’d never met in person, we would imagine what that might be like in a number of different scenarios.

It’s an amazing thing when you meet someone whose imagination and story-telling ability matches yours. I’d done this with other women, and it was good, but never like this. It’s amazing after you’ve told a few stories in the past, that that woman will start getting wet, as soon as she hears your voice on the phone.

Of course, both of you are pleasuring yourselves, but in the imagination, one can just about feel the other as being present, physically, in reality. It’s truly amazing what your mind can do, when you try hard. I’ve often wondered if I could have an orgasm without anything touching my cock. I haven’t, but I’ll bet I could, with the right storyteller.

@daloon “Remember, the greatest sex organ is the brain”
On you, maybe…

Aw, come’on… No one remembers that line from The Big Lebowski?

I think we’ve adequately dispensed with the idea that penis size means anything. Get with the program, @filmfann! It’s not funny if no one cares.

Talking about sexual acts that you would presumably do together in person, masturbating or maybe not.

@daloon I think you should have been around for party lines.

@fundevogel LOL!!!! That is so funny—imagining people listening in. I wonder if they could have kept quiet? Man, the rumors would have spread so fast! Now, would the women have started secretly calling, so they could get some sugar?