Le sigh. I feel the need to relay a story.
When I was almost two years old, I was in the backseat with my sister and brother in the car on I believe I-95 in FL, a death trap of a road if you know it. At an intersection my mother was rammed into by a car going well above the speed limit and running a red light. My mother had green, and children in the car.
For the last few minutes I was being a bit of a brat, and had recently learned how to undo the seat belts on my car seat. I repeatedly took them off and on. My mother, in the intersection had just noticed mine was off and my sister who was almost four at the time, had just removed hers to put me back in my seat.
At that moment we were hit. Our car spun full circle multiple times, and with the back window down I went flying into heavy traffic on a five lane highway. Completely naked, the blow actually knocked my diaper off (enjoy that folks). I’ve heard different distances mentioned but the consensus seems to be about forty feet away was my landing spot. At a year and a half, I still remember the ambulance ride, being terrified, not understanding what happened, where my family was, or why I was strapped down to a stretcher and being stabbed with multiple needles. I remember every minute of it.
Before I was noticed wandering through cars going 50+mph my mother was so shocked and scared that she hallucinated me in the back seat and reached multiple times for a white plastic bag, which in her mind was obviously my diaper, the only thing I was wearing. A few tries in and she came to her senses and I was found. Waddling around with just a scratch on my chin.
The point of this story is yes, I was fine. I did not have lasting damage from the accident.
But if I wasn’t being so damn childish I never would have put myself in a position to be hurt or hurt those around me in the first place.
I could have been maimed, killed, run over by an innocent party in another car who would have had to have the guilt of hitting another human being and ending their life, I could have hit a windshield, ending my life and causing a multiple car pile-up, anything could have occurred.
I was a child, I did not know any better.
You’re just acting like one.