Women, what is the ideal way a man could express interest in you?

Wow… 3 GQs and no answer…

No wonder I have trouble getting a date.

Cricket noise.

Seriously? Just say, hey, wanna grab a drink?

If you think it’s going somewhere say so.

I’m seriously amazed by how often this kind of question is asked and how simple the answer always is.

Just by talking with me about anything I’m interested in. Yes, grab a drink, get a coffee, ask about some upcoming event. It’s pretty easy to just talk with people.

On initial meeting or early acquiantance, actually expressing interest is something that happens a lot less often than it should in interaction between the sexes.

Women would love to hear: “I have really enjoyed talking to you and would like to get to know you better.”

Once you get to early dating stages, one fabulous way to show interest is to have actually listened to what she has told you about herself and her interests, and then to act on it.

For example, she loves dogs. Suggest a dog show as a date.

She talked about her love of art books (or cook books or gardening). Pick one up and bring it to her as a small gift.

Concrete demonstrations that you care about what interests her are surefire woman wowers.

• be authentic
• when you do spend time together, stay engaged in that moment and don’t multi-task

Look at me! Smile at me! Pay attention to me when I talk. If you’re looking off somewhere else, then forget it.

Dude, if someone bought me a book on a subject I cared about I’d melt. Books are true love.

At least to me.

GA, Marina.

@Marina: I’m surprised I haven’t exceeded my Lurve ration for you by now! Your answer rocks (as usual)!

Just be yourself- and talk. Get to know her.. ask questions.. people can make things so much harder than they are.. don’t worry so much!