Not feeling like they have “proof.”
Adding up all the contradictions religions contain.
Hearing 2 people who supposedly have the same beliefs argue over translation.
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Other life theories make more sense to them.
Hearing only extremes of a religion can be a turn off.
If snakes are used, it could be a turn off
If tongues are being spoken, it could be a turn off
If your youth pastor was arrested for pedophilia (this happened to me!)
If you ask a question in church and are told you’re a stupid devil worshipper (this happened to me!)
If your pastor has a lazy eye. (me!)
If you don’t understand it.
If a religion itself is scary, like voodoo.
If it’s being forced by family
If it’s being “sold” door to door
Its representatives are not typically the brightest crayons in the box.
Its representatives are often off-putting in many ways.
No questions are ever really answered- Church leaders tell you not to question anything and that God will give you all the answers in Heaven. In other words, “blindly follow and keep your mouth shut.”
Some religious sects do things that just feel wrong to our humanity- like flying planes full of people into crowded New York buildings. And that mars the reputation of the rest of the sects.
Followers of any religion seem brainwashed and are not in control of their own lives.
The Bible says that women on their periods may not leave the house.
The Bible says that you may not eat shellfish in Leviticus (in the beginning of the Bible). The Bible later says you can eat shellfish in Jude (second to last book of the Bible). Nobody likes to miss out on crab cracking in Maryland, ok!?!!?
The Bible says you may not wear cotton/poly blend.
The Bible says you must kill your children if they get snippy.
The Bible says you must obey your parents, but doesn’t clarify if that includes abusive, mentally ill, or inept parents.
In the Bible, a serpent talks to a woman in a garden.
In the Bible, a whale swallows a man whole.
In the Bible, cutting a man’s hair takes away his super-human strength.
I’ll stop now, but I was a voluntarily church-going kid. I loved going with my grandmother from 2 years old, even though my parents were non-religious. I loved the singing and I loved the candy I was given every Sunday. I loved church until high school, when I guess I grew a brain and realized… a lot. I do miss the singing though.