I spent more than a decade as a vegetarian. I raised two kids as vegetarians -one of which was a vegan for a while. I’m not now, but I’m “vegetarian sympathetic” and don’t feel the need to have meat at every meal.
Pros:
It’s one way that you can make conscious efforts toward your health and/or politics. Just decide what your reasons are and make sure that’s what you’re really doing. If you’re doing it for health, don’t become what we used to call a “Doritos vegetarian”. If you’re doing it for treatment of animals, how consistent are you in the rest of your life? You get the idea.
It’s a lot easier to do these days with the choices at the supermarkets, farmer’s market’s, and restaurants than it used to be.
The steps you’re talking about making are much easier to shift into than a strictly vegan lifestyle -both in terms of finding choices and easier to keep healthy.
Cons:
It really isn’t cheaper. You aren’t just taking away meat and the cost of meats from your diet. You’re buying more nuts, fresh vegetables, tofu, fresh fruits, and usually different grains than what the typical meat eater buys. I ended up spending more on nuts and tofu alone than I ever spent on meats.
When you first start it can be really hard to get used to reading every label to make sure you’re not getting anything you don’t want in your diet and making sure you’re getting the nutrients you need. And for fresh items that don’t strictly have a “label” there’s a lot of initial time that goes into researching the changes you’re making. This goes for researching which restaurants will work when you go out, too. But this gets easier over time. You get used to what you need and soon learn where you can get it. Until you get over that hump, though, it can seem overwhelming for a while.
If you’re doing this with your kids you have to be really diligent to be sure they’re getting what they need when you aren’t there. People can be jerks to your kids when it comes to their school lunch being changed or telling you they’ll give your kid one thing when they’re over at someone’s house and then doing another thing. Make sure your kids have a strategy for handling all sorts of situations when you aren’t around to advocate for them.
As for suggestions, I suggest concentrating on what healthy things you’re adding to your diet first like more fresh veggies, higher fiber foods, etc. Then slowly remove the worst meats and replace them with better proteins. It’s easier to change your cooking and dining out habits this way, too. You’re learning a bunch of new things you can do and not just some long list of things not to do. Then you don’t feel like you’re depriving yourself. You’re learning positive healthy habits.
Here’s to your health. Cheers!